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Having worked in customer service in the past I personally have experienced many more rude/bitchy women customers than male ones. Some women try to tell me they think men are worse because of the ones who get really angry and scare them - and I have experienced those as well - but those types are still few in comparison to women who "want to speak to a supervisor" cuz they either can't get their way on a deal, or they want to report an employee to feel like they're getting the upperhand; the ones who want to cheat with coupons, and entitled, middle-aged or elderly women who abuse customer service by acting like a bitch because they know they can get away with it.

There are times when a partner betrays you in a way that just puts you into a rage. You want to hurt them in return and make them feel just as bad as you do. I understand the feelings.
But. . . how do you benefit from the revenge, other than maybe feeling better for a brief time? Does revenge undo the fact that they cheated on you? Stole money from you? Told lies about you?

Have you ever gotten revenge on an ex and a year later, you were still happy that you had your revenge? Did you ever feel that getting revenge made you just as low a person as your ex?
Revenge keeps you entangled with your ex instead of moving forward and finding a new partner; maybe that's why some people choose revenge: they don't want to let go!

What is your experience with revenge?