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Search Results: getting a guy to open up
How people are misguiding you with crap advices about relationships
I'm targeting this take to young men, but keeping in mind I can only speak about my perspectives... The perspectives of a man in his early 30's! When I was younger, I dealt with the same things you youngsters have been...
EmperorOfRussia
Explorer Age: 38 I can't get past the crush stage with most guys. How do I fix this problem?
I get told I look good pretty often and hearing it from attractive men is no exception. But I dont have a boyfriend and part of it is because guys dont treat me the way they treat my friends. I have friends who guys...
Anonymous
(25-29) Relationship question?
I'm a young woman in my twenties and my boyfriend has a child. He was open about it with me when we first started talking. It's gotten serious in our relationship almost a year in and we see things going for long term...
Rastababe125
Xper 4 Age: 30 What is going on here with this guy?
Please be gentle, my first post. Me and a guy at work seem to get on well. Once I have handed over my shift to him, we end up chatting for a while in between him doing his jobs and me getting ready to go home. I end up...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did he changed his mind about meeting me?
I met someone online a couple of weeks ago. He is very open, articulate, and *seems* to be a very honest person. Our first conversation lasted two days. It wasn’t sexual at all - just discussions about common interests,...
Clarity123
Xper 4 Age: 34 Why would he care so much about us not talking anymore?
Recently I told this guy that I’m talking to that we needed to stop talking as he was confusing me, he gives of all the signals that he likes me but has never been open with how he feels about me. He chased me hard after...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do I meet up with him or not?
I've kinda been dating around and meeting new people but recently I've wanted to stop as I've met someone i really like but it's still early days and nothing is officiall yet and were bouth not going to see each other for...
Alice2398
Guru Age: 28 Toxic masculinity and patriarchy: How the society dehumanizes men and turns them violent towards women!
I am not against healthy masculinity. However, toxic masculinity is harmful for men too. I will give some everyday examples and some extreme examples. In everyday life, men don't feel comfortable talking about their...
Shezadi
Yoda Age: 27 He smiles/stares from a distance but when I try to speak to him he gets cold?
There is this shy guy and I have initiated text a few times, and every single time he opens up and replies with detailed messages. We spoke about our own struggles and I find we have a lot in common. Recently I have got...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to ask a guy to go for drinks (as friends), without seeming romantically interested?
Basically, I was friends with this guy as teens, not close friends but we knew each other, he was my teenage crush. 7 years later we matched on a dating website. But every time I replied to his texts he would take 3 days...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this type intimacy only lust or more?
I've only been intimate in a relationship so I don't really know how an unserious/friends with benefit type of situation is like. Sure it all starts the same but usually the person has in some way made their intent clear....
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I be worried?
I recently met this guy on tinder we went on a nice walk in the countryside and plan on meeting again next week. He’s told me he’s not looking for a hook up he wants something serious and doesn’t want to rush into sex...
Anonymous
(30-35) What to do with guys who don't want a hook up but also don't want a serious relationship? I need an analysis of his response please?
This guy and I went out on two dates. There was a mix up on our last date where we both expected a goodnight kiss to happen different ways and ended up not having one! He apparently expected me to invite him in my house...
operalove19
Xper 4 Age: 31 Is my classmate interested in me?
There's a guy in my art class that always smiles at me every single day. It seems like just a polite thing he does, but something just seems different about it. Every single time we make eye contact he gives me a soft...
Anonymous
(18-24) I'm in Love with my English Professor and Nobody Can Know
While it is usually more common for female students to fall in love with their male professors, I am one of the few male students in love with my female professor. I've had her for about three semesters now and even...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex wants me back, but I've been with a girl for 4 months. What should I do?
So here's the background information. Back in June 2018, I got really close with a girl, and we talked for around 4 months before we kinda fell out/stopped talking. I blamed myself mainly for our miscommunication, and...
That2kKid21
Explorer Age: 24 I’m scared of getting close to people because I know they will eventually leave me?
Every time I meet a guy dating wise I’m always scared to be close to him because I don’t wanna get hurt and I know he will leave me like everyone else has especially after/if we hookup. So In my head I’m like what’s the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Dating a guy who "says he's polyamorus", but im calling bull, can I get some opinions?
Ok. So I have posted before, but now things are getting intense. So backstory, I started chatting a guy from work up via text, I liked him and thought I could really use someone to spend time with (im new to the area). We...
Anonymous
(30-35) The pursuit of success in life
Life is our master. Life can be fun. It can be hard. It can be engaging or depressing. It can be all these things at different times. They say pain is there to teach you, and hardship means you haven't learned your...
kali_hacker
Xper 3 Age: 43 Is he shy, nervous, not ready for a relationship or just not that in to me?
Almost exactly a year ago a guy who works in my office building, Mike, and I went on a couple of dates and ended up in bed together. We were open to seeing how things developed but it turned out both of us weren’t at a...
RoseBud8
Xper 2 Age: 42 