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We only went on two dates, but so far:
- He never takes out his phone except to show me stuff when we're together.
- Asks some really personal things about family, hobbies, goals, life and even weather! It really seems like he's interested in getting to know me.
- He does most of the talking and asking questions.
- Wants me to meet his friends after the first date.
- Finds excuses to touch me, but they are really innocent (IE hands brushing or asking for hugs)
- Flirts but innocently, nothing remotely sexual.
- Never looks at other girls.
- Girls try to flirt with him a lot. I decided to test him and told him I'm going outside to finish my drink. He immediately stopped talking to the girl and went outside with me for 30 minutes waiting for me to finish drinking.
- Told me out of the blue he doesn't sleep around.
- When I was going on holiday, he asked in detail whether I will ever come back and he seemed worried. When I told him I will, he was relieved.
- I tested him again. I told him girls expect too much and everybody cheats on everyone. He told me if he is really into somebody, they should commit because trust is VERY important in a relationship.
- Added me on Facebook after first date.

But here are a few red flags:
- Can't post on his FB wall.
- Seems busy most of the time, working, band practice, etc.
- Has a lot of female friends and pictures with them.
- Friends with a stripper and liked a photo of her but.
- When he saw his friend he told me to stay while he went up to talk to him.
- Is a band player. C'mon, all of them cheat!

So is he a player?

So I have a crush on this guy. He's sort of a flirt. I wouldn't really say a player but, girls are always all
over him. We're really good friends and I sort of developed a little crush on him. A few days a go I met this girl. She saw us talking and started picking on us saying we should be dating. So at first she kept saying that she didn't like him and she wanted to help get us together. I told her no but she tried anyway. So she got his phone number and started texting him and asking him why we weren't together. Soon she started flirting with him in person and through text, even though she knows I like him. So I'm not really the jealous type so I didn't think much of it. It's not like we're together anyway. So today she was hanging out with me, my friends, my crush, and his friends. When she was about to go home she ran up to my crush and kissed him. So everyone knows I like my friend, including him. So one of his guy friends knows that I like him and sort of felt bad that I had to watch her kiss him so he said he was gonna go talk to my crush. I wasn't even upset though. So when the guy comes back after talking to my crush he says, "he didn't kiss her, she kissed him! He was tryna get a hug and she kissed him, but he didn't want the kiss cause he likes somebody else." So everyone started staring at me. Now I'm confused. He seemed really happy about the kiss in the moment but everyone keeps telling me that he likes me, and I'm just confused!