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Search Results: approaching women in bars
Why don't women approach men?
Whenever I'm out at a restaurant, store, coffee shop, etc. I can usually sense someone looking at me and so I will often look around to see if any women are checking me out (and also to check said women out). And usually...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys that ignore girls
More specifically Guys that don't rubberneck at every single cute girl he sees he might give a glance around just to be aware of his surroundings but he don't 'see' you. I ask this question because I do this a lot because...
Musclecarman
Xper 5 Age: 39 Do you think dating is hard for men?
Lets look at this. First you can't meet girls anywhere. 1. Can't meet them at the bar/club because no girl wants to tell their mother that they met there. 2. Can't meet a girl who you work with, because its unethical....
superdudeman
Explorer Age: 48 Why do girls like unavailable guys? Just challenge?
At an early age I've noticed girls who like guys who are already in relationships. In fact whenever I'm dating a girl all of the sudden it's easier for me to talk with other women and I even sometimes get approached...
Anonymous
(36-45) Passing Women's Tests Continued (3)
3. I have a boyfriend test. Many people have heard this one, things are going great with a woman so you decide to make that first real move, maybe ask her out for a coffee and she might even say yes, but wait, "just...
Gregs
Yoda Age: 46 Passing Women's Tests Continued
Before listing some specific, common tests women use its important to say that the easiest way to "pass" all these tests is something that women have been telling men all along, to "be yourself". Since we already said...
Gregs
Yoda Age: 46 Ladies, would you reject me harshly?
Hello, I want to approach ladies and get to find the girl that fills my life with joy. I am shy. With not very strong self confidence. But I would like to hear from you ladies... If I approach you in a non jerk type...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Do guys want to meet girls in public places?
Hello guys! My question sounds a bit strange, but here it is: do guys really want to meet someone in public places, such as grocery stores, coffee shops, fitness clubs? I was watching this Seinfeld episode where Jerry...
Anonymous
(36-45) A World Not So Different
Born in the depths of Northern Thailand. A tiny village resembling that of the jungle book. A bamboo hut with dirt floors and a rice pot as interior design. This is the luxuries of the third world. Trees and vines stretch...
papasmurf
Xper 3 Age: 36 Older women- cougars/milfs
Have a fascination with cougars and milfs. Want to meet some real bad. Was thinking of ways to engage in convo and wanted to know opinions. Would this work, or at least get their attention. At the bar or whatever,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Jaded Men Who Hate Women
I've been noticing a trend on this site (and life) lately and it mostly has to do with people asking questions about and directing issues towards the way that women are treated in the mating game. Over the period of...
Epiphanies
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why does everyone think you have to be a Don Juan or PUA to get a chick?
I see this time and time again, and all it is doing, is making it way harder for you guys to get a chick. Women see this pick up artist crap and go oh great another douche bag, but hey those guys know, they are all...
tex151
Yoda Age: 43 Why do American women think "All men are creeps"?
Hi, I am international student studying in the US. It's funny how a lot of women in the US think "all men are creeps." I was watching a reality TV show where one woman said, " I get approached by guys at grocery stores...
Anonymous
(36-45) You're an average guy and you walk into a bar?
I mean average in the most vague sense. You are average-looking, average-height, average-build, you like sports (or don't, whatever), think Angelina Jolie is a hottie but have realistic expectations about real women. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm honest, well intentioned, self-assured, and kind. How should I approach you?
I'm a nice guy. When I say that, I don't mean that I'm weak-willed or boring. I mean that I genuinely care about other people and know who I am as an individual: I respect women, I'm a leader of my peers, I'm...
Forte
Xper 5 Age: 38 How do I stop getting approached by sleazy men and attract a better class of man?
I am intelligent and I want to come across this way without compromising my looks. I keep getting approached by sleazy looking men and feel that my look does not appeal to good/intelligent/smart men and was wondering...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to ask out a female friend?
So I've had this cute friend for about a year now. We hang out in the same circle and had some good ass time, but I wouldn't say we ever got close. I never really thought of her as girlfriend material until about the...
MetIncome
Xper 5 Age: 44 Why do women think "All men are creeps"?
It's funny how a lot of women in the US think "all men are creeps." I was watching a reality TV show where one woman said, " I get approached by guys at grocery stores and book stores and it really creeps me out." The...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I find someone who can love me?
I am a 24 year old law student and will be a lawyer next year. I am very successful at everything I do that I put my mind to, especially work related. But my biggest weakness and the only thing I am not good at at all is...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I too intimidating to women?
I'm a full-time student and I work full-time but I am trying to squeeze a social life into it, specifically dating. I am not arrogant but I'm pretty confident in my looks. I have been told by friends that I have the whole...
Anonymous
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