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I've been talking to my boyfriend since June, and since we've met, and had our first kiss last month - we're in a relationship.
This isn't the only reason why I'm in a relationship, there's been romantic moments which just made me fall for him, like the first time we met he held my hand and was looking into my eyes, I could see how he felt for me, and before kissing me he put his hand flat against my chest feeling my heart beat fast, and told me I'm beautiful (maybe I'm just really falling for it, I don't know... but I find it romantic)

Anyway I'm really insecure because of my last relationship. I didn't even want to be in relationship ever again, but he crept up on me, he was talking to me everyday and night since June I guess I got attached.

The problem is that we barely talk on the phone anymore and he doesn't talk to me like he used to.

Like I said he would talk to me everyday and message me all the time, to go from that to not talking on the phone for 3 weeks just feels as if something is up - I've moved out for uni, I'm a 100 miles away - I'd expect there to be more contact because I'm far away.

Also he doesn't really message me much, sometimes it's a good morning, a bit of banter and goodnight. He's not romantic towards me as much as he used to be either. And the past two weeks when I message him (whatsapp) I can see that he's online but he doesn't open my message and goes offline then replies hours later even though he's been online in between, it makes me think he's talking to another girl, the attention he used to give me, he's giving it to someone else.

2 weeks ago (when all this started) I told him straight up that if he doesn't want to be with me then he's free to go, and I told him how I felt; that we don't talk anymore etc but then he says he loves me, doesn't want anyone else, that's why he's waited months to be with me etc and will make sure that we're still ok...

... But then he hasn't changed... it's making me really insecure and I hate it.

Okay, I have a crush on this boy, but unfortunately, I only have 1 class with him. I think he may like but I'm getting mixed signals and I don't know what to do. Here's what I do know...

1. He's only ever asked out 1 girl before, and got rejected so it's likely he's cautious around a girl he likes, right? I also look pretty similar to this girl, we both have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. This also happened almost a year ago.
2.. When I used sit by him in class, he ignored me and talked to everyone else but me. However, he still tried to project his personality. If he makes a joke, he'll sometimes look over to me to see if I'm laughing. He's an outgoing guy so it doesn't make sense that he'd be shy around me.
3. I've caught him staring at me multiple times. Yet, every time I notice, he turns his head away really fast.
4. I was sitting with a few of my friends, and in the corner of my eye, I caught him whisper to his friend and they both stare directly at me.
5. Our class went to the computer lab, and as we were about to find our seats, I looked up and he was staring directly at me. I stared back for 4-5ish seconds but I was the first one to break eye contact. We weren't sitting together but he did sit right in front of me.
6. When I was walking into the cafeteria with a few of my friends, him and one of his friends were staring at me as I was getting to my seat, and they saw that I was sitting really close to one of my guy friends. We don't sit at the same table.
7. The next day, we were playing a game in class, and he kept running around and acting silly. Every time he would do that, he would look directly at me to see if I was watching him?
8. He's been trying to get closer to me. For example, whenever we're allowed to move seats for the day, he always sits with his friends at my table. He also traded seats with one of his friends to sit by me at a pep rally for my school.

By the way, all of this is in chronological order.