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I wanna know. We ended on bad terms. But last night I was in his workplace (supermarket) getting groceries. Recently he's been doing nightshifts so there was no chance of me running into him.

However that one night he was there. And I happened to be wearing hot pants and tights. He caught my eye, we smiled over to each other a little. Then he moved closer to where I was collecting my shopping. He instantly asked how I was and we began talking.

I told him about my promotion at work and going back to university. He was really congratulatory towards me and told me I deserved to celebrate. He made direct eye contact with me and seemed happy for me.

Then, he was telling me a bit about his life. He told me about his band recording a new album... and even let me hear one of the songs. Which he hadn't done in a long time.

He then started telling me he was going to a cabin with his friend... and added in that his friends girlfriend was going and her friends too. He told me his friend was wanting to try and set him up with one of the girls, but he made it explicitly clear that he wasn't interested in any of them at all. Which, I guess I already knew.

There was even a point where he was joking with me and he actually winked at me. After speaking for a whole half hour, I went home. He congratulated me once again on my new job and said 'I'll see you later'.

At that, I left the shop. I looked back to see if he was looking at me, and he caught my eye.

In the middle of the morning, he posted a status on Facebook heavily referring to the conversation we had about him going to the cabin. It was a joke-reference. Nobody would have understood it... apart from him and I. So, nobody else liked the status.

either way, it made me wonder if he's finally trying to be a friend or if he's not over me? It's been a whole year... but we argued a lot after we split and it was kinda rough. What do you think?

"I married my husband when I was 19, and he was 20. We were both virgins and each others first (and only) relationship. As a woman, I've been fed this sexual liberation propaganda all my life, and I've always thought it was horrible. I wanted to save myself for my husband, but I also wanted my husband to do the same for me. I've never met another woman who had the same opinion, though. So I really agree with this article. I know that if I were a man, I would be very sad at the state of women today, and not know where to find a good wife.

It's not easy to hear the truth about the world, but at least you guys won't get walked all over by the entitled brats in female bodies today. From what I've seen all my life, girls nowadays are only obsessed with themselves, and they want/expect all men to be obsessed with them too. I guess they've been conditioned to be this way by society telling them they are so precious and important, but I personally find it disgusting and unfeminine. I try my best to always make my husband happy in every way that I can, and this involves the feminine quality of being self-sacrificing and serving another. In return he gives me the love and praise that my female self craves. But that's the thing. I have chosen to only want it from him, whereas I feel most girls want it from all men, or many men (Alpha men?)."