Why I Change My Point Of View On Dating And Relationships

[Anonymous]

I had an incident which happened to me last night, and I know this person but from what happened last night is was my final straw with that person and relationships.

Money. Root of all evil, and all this person wanted.

I met "Jane Doe" about 5 years ago. She was in a rush to meet me, so I met her, she wanted to go for sushi so I took her for sushi, 1st date I said okay I will pay. And the whole time she lectured me and lectured me. So I dropped out of sight from her, she called me about a few months later and I lost contact, second time around we met up, We went to see sacred ground in the city, and this was something important to me, so we went there, we got Chinese food at a good restaurant, this time she was like ok we will split the bill. She got mad at me because she couldn't get my messages (she had an Iphone and complained she never got my messages when everyone else got my messages) and had an attitude with me

This time around is when I said I can't deal with it. She asked me to pick her up at a certain time, so I did, she was late as usual and had me rushing to take her somewhere, she told me to come and get her at a certain time. I was waiting and waiting, I texted her should I come get her, no response, She calls me 1 hour later and she's at another location. So I was waiting for them for 1 hour at a wrong location (supposedly she went somewhere with her friend and dropped her there) Her words, I dont care your paying for dinner.

She wanted sushi again, during this whole time she's berating me on how my job isn't good enough and my money isn't good enough (while people behind me can hear her and she's getting loud) and not listening to a word I was saying sounding like a broken record. Then in the next breathe telling me she loves me and wants kids with me.

She then gets a phone call and says the same line to them. I ask her if she says the same line she told me and she says no and I was like "not what I heard you said the same line to me you told them". Like an idiot I pay for the meal and she's yelling at me to give more money for the tip to the waiter (mind you she is already causing a scene so I put more money and walked out)

As I'm driving her home, she's repeating the same thing over and over again and asks me "Your going to delete my number aren't you" I said nothing.

While all this is going on, someone else said they would meet me for dinner and she flaked on me 4x over. (her excuse is either had something last min or something)

Time: How many times and how many chances can someone give to certain people for this, they believe that you are made of money and you should pay for dinner and saying that "I dont care your paying for dinner" what is that? how can you say that to someone like that

Time: (part 2)

We get older, I get that, but do we have to settle or keep searching. I know our bodies aren't built forever, stress shortens our life span, so does unneeded drama.

I know everyone isn't created equal but I am looking for a miracle out there and as long as I get a slanted idea of what a relationship is where a guy pays for everything (even when married) and a woman does nothing, we past that century long ago.

Sorry if I seem bitter, I really am not but again its "myTake"