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So, I have to write this really short cause I’ve written parts of it in other polls before too

We met

We exchanged numbers

We talked got close

I fell for him

He freaked out and said he wasn’t ready

We stopped talking

I started getting blank 'No Caller ID' calls

(On average once a week for about 1 month)

He called, and we spoke/ argued a little (We needed to let it out)

Turns out he liked me too and had feelings for me

He admitted to the blank calls, said he needed to hear my voice

He still said the next day he shouldn’t have called, and we should forget each other

Week later, more 'No Caller ID' calls (This time I haven’t been picking any of them up

The calls went on EVERYDAY (sometimes almost 7 calls in the night, sometimes hours apart)

I bought a subscription that tells me whose number just called as 'No caller ID'... It was him! (I now have proof too)

So, since the calls started the second time it’s been about 50 calls over a month or so

Now no more calls in the last week at all...

What’s he playing at now?

I want him to make up his mind now, and either man up or walk away and now call again,

I can’t move on with him calling all the time, I know he has quite strong feelings and something is stopping him from committing, he just won’t say what.

I’m going to text him now and say I’m moving on and he needs to stop calling, is that a good idea or not, will that kick him in to shape to man up or is it a bad idea?

HELP please, I really like him but I’m stuck now, cause he not leaving me much choice now.

He obviously couldn't forget me as who the hell calls 50 times over 4 weeks and never gets an answer, but carries on until now obviously.

I just don't know what he's thinking, please guys i need you're man advice on whats going through his mind... Please

My ex broke things off while he was on vacation. He texted said we need to talk then called & said that text was a “slip”. He said he wasn’t feeling it anymore & things weren’t progressing. After asking why, he said “you wanna know the truth? I never developed feelings for you since day 1.” So for 6 months he never developed feelings. The convo ended abruptly, but instead of calling back or seeing me in person... he ghosted me.

when we dated, everything was too perfect. We clicked like it was meant to be. We ignored the 10 year gap because it felt like we were meant to be. He wrote me paragraphs how he’s crazy about me, cares about me to the moon and back, how I’ll be his wife, this and that. He spent $400 on flowers for Vday- basically the way he acted & things he said, made me build fantasies about the future of us. He got a new house and I decorated it all. He introduced me to his entire family, his close friends and their families. He called me his fiancé. Literally eveything was going perfect and he always told me he’s going to fight for me and stay by my side no matter what happens because we are meant to be and no other man will ever have me. From all the good morning baby texts to goodnight baby texts to Random i miss you and I’m thinking about you texts to other texts and convos, I was happy and assured he was the one according to how he acted with me.

We had arguments but resolved them and never stayed mad. There were red flags though. he was emotionally and verbally abusive but was blinded by how much I fell for him. He told me things any woman would be upset about but i ignored. I thought I was overthinking or he gave an explanation. He slowly stopped to care, he didn’t compliment me, made me feel I wasn’t good enough for him. The make outs, touching, hugging stopped. He was always on his phone. I became cold towards him due to his behavior because he was acting cold & rude with me.