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To define making a move, the woman would either ask the guy out on a date, or give him her number (without him asking for it).
Should a female do this or let the man take the lead? Assuming men take the lead if they are truly interested in a girl.

So I have a crush on my physical therapist but they are not allowed to have relations with their clients. My PT is over soon, so I won't be his patient anymore, but he can't make a move on me since he is bound to the code of ethics. Even when I am not his patient, he would probably feel unprofessional doing so.

So, I have to make the move which would mean give him my number, or ask him if he wants to hangout sometime. I didn't follow him on instagram or anything like that bc I thought it was childish.
I am not sure if I should give him my number or ask him if he wants to hangout. I am nervous and getting cold feet about it. He is 1 year younger than me, and it seems he is into active/sporty girls, I am active and trying to get stronger, but I'm not like, an athlete.

I can feel that we have chemistry and I think he likes me, but he doesn't want to jeopardize his job and I get that. He always asks me what my weekend plans are, I think to see if I am dating or have a boyfriend which I don't. I don't know, it is very 50/50, I can't gauge his interest really.

Should I make the move?

I've become strict this year and developed boundaries. My mother confuses it for bitterness. I don't think so. Is what happened to me, the reason kind people are harder to find?

Emotional bullies:
At school, they take pleasure in humiliating you, have little to no empathy. They expect you to forgive and forget, act as if nothing happened when greeting you. This is the same as cleaning someone's mess and be ok with it.

Fake friends and family members.
I once forgave a female bully after a physical fight. I fell for her fake apology, fake tears and handshake. I didn't realize girls don't function the same way as guys. She faked it all for a year and gave me a fake phone number on my yearbook. Certain members in the family are only there for you during your success and good times but not during bad moments.

Takers:
The take and take... and the more kind you are... the more they take. They have no shame in how they're acting. However, if you need a favor all of the sudden they're busy, ghost you or are unavailable. They are online seeing your message and don't respond back. If they need a favor, they expect you to reply back quickly and help them.

Cheapskates:
This is different from saving money. They are the types that buy fancy, expensive things for themselves (it's always about them) but nothing for even their own mothers nor your own b-day. It's always a discount ticket or a cheap buffet, never spoiling you once at least. They are always broke but yet they're wearing expensive shoes, pretending to be wealthy. Or they invite you to their house just to watch a movie but real date.

Liars, lovebombers and scammers:
My ex boyfriend. He asked for money ($1,200) and never paid me back. He was a bum, vampire boyfriend too, lying about future plans and never progressing things. I learned he was really a sociopath that took pleasure in all that. He really wanted to drain all my fertile years for the sake of it. He lovebombed like crazy in the beginning and it was all lies.