Why do women always complain about having it hard when they have it extremely easy life on average?

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Women from middle and rich-class families have it way easier than men. However, it can be hard for women from lower-income backgrounds or poor countries.
1. Parents invest way more money for the well-being of a girl child than a guy. Expensive toys to dresses, beauty products.
2. Women can start dating with almost no prerequisite like money or extensive physical attributes which can take years to build.
3. Women can get hired more easily than men and can make money way easier than most men. Women can make crazy amounts of money in no time just by taking pictures and posting them on the internet.
4. A lot of women I know who don't do anything, like study jobs yet their boyfriends pay for their luxurious lifestyle. I have never heard any guy get perks like this.
5. Over history men died in countless wars, even now women and children can leave Ukraine, most men can. Men still do all the hard, laborious, and life-threatening jobs.
6. Women get reserved seats in educational places, jobs, public transports
7. Most men give out free protection to most women. Even though it's true that some men can rape or model them but that's very few compare to men protecting them from everything.
8. courts are always in favor of women in divorce or crimes even though a lot of them turns out to be fake
9. can get love, sex, care, relationships, mental support almost anytime they want. It may not be always from the men who they want but men have to work way hard to acquire them. Suicides are very common in men than women.
After all of these perks and way more women still complain that they have it harder (seen in some recent posts). Yes, women have to deal with periods, childbirth, or some bad men in our society but compared to what they get outrights almost everything.
Although I lot of women are hardworking, make their own money, and don't fit into upper definitions. But the number is way way less.

TyLeeAndPink · Accepted Answer

1. Not necessarily
2. I have several dateable features, yet am single.
3. It’s not as easy as you think for women to get jobs. Have you forgotten about the wage gap?
4. I’ve never met a woman who gets this treatment.
5. Historically, men died during wars while women had to be r*ped first. Also, would you not describe actual labor as “hard, laborious, and life-threatening?”
6. This is to protect them from harassment and abuse, which are unfortunately very common for us.
7. It’s actually not “very few” men who would harm women. The majority of men I’ve interacted with have been offensive or threatening as opposed to protective and chivalrous.
8. Statistically, women commit fewer crimes and usually don’t lie in court when compared to men.
9. Actually, we can’t. I feel like this point is a repeat of #2.

I haven’t personally experienced ALL of these but most women do at some point. Plus, men have many “perks” as well. Women have more problems than you think, and I’ve seen men complain too.

AvaOneLasTime · Accepted Answer

Those were the expected points for women to complain about.

1. - Not always true. I know little boys who just... don't miss a thing.
2. - Try dating as overweight woman.
3. - This is not true at all. Where i live, they hire person based if he could do the job well, regardless of gender. They don't care about your gender.
4. - There are young, attractive men with older women. You get what for. And in the case you wrote about, it's the guy's own (wrong) choice.
5. - True, i must admit, but this time, a lot of women died in Ukraine. If you don't read about that, then someone is interested in you not seeing it.
6. - No such thing where i live. What that even is?
7. - This is not men issue, but rather men's choice to protect women. You know, you can choose NOT to protect too, right?
8. - Not where i live.
9. - I wish it were true, that the world would care so much about me, because i am woman. Unfortunately, no one gives a shit. I am just another human being, like you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because they think we have no disadvantages and only privileges. They will understand that we have things that are not the best, but those are downplayed to inconveniences.
There was a feminist and a lesbian named Norah Vincent who went undercover. She made herself look and like a man for a year and came out of it saying that women have it much easier.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

When was the last time you had to kill a mammoth? Face down a six and a half ton beast with tusks almost as big as you were, armed with nothing but a stone age spear?
How about the famines you've had to endure? Or the invasions?

Our society ground to a halt over a "plague" less dangerous than CHICKEN POX, and you think YOU'VE had it rough?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

How to say you are single and can’t date without saying it.

Item 5 by the way, there are a lot of women stopping behind fighting, working in hospitals, burying the dead etc.

You are likely the type to want first in the life boat.

sunflower00 · Answer

This is completely ridiculous, most of your points are completely false OR are things that women do not want and is not beneficial or easy for us

dovendyret · Answer

I kinda understand why you had to go anon on this nonsense. 😅

Anonymous · Answer

Excuse me but for every single Dollar a man makes, a woman only earns.75 cents so this all adds up. It is still harder to be a woman than a man.

CloudMassacre · Answer

What is “extremely easy” to you

Anonymous · Answer

Playing the victim gets them attention.

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