Girls, She takes days to respond but is really enthusiastic?

[djromero]

So I never met this girl, I found her on Twitter. She's from Mexico but she lives here in the States. I messaged her on Twitter and gave a smooth initial message and she loved it. She replied and she had these emojis in after saying thank you,🥺🙈🥰. I gave her my number if she ever wanted to talk so I didn't pressure her after giving a compliment. We didn't talk much until I made her a spotify playlist and she really appreciated it. I named the playlist "Angel" and i told her, her instagram pictures remind me of an Angel the way the sun shines on her back. She said "awe 😭🥺 thank you so so muchhhh😭😭" I felt like it was time to ask her to lunch so i basically said i dont mean to put you on the spot because you're really nice but id be an idiot if i didn't try 😂 She said "awe heheh you are the nicest person ever ever 🥺" then that she would love to when she has free time. After that we've just been talking about random stuff and she said something in Spanish that I wasn't sure what she said and i said sorry my Spanish is pathetic and i never had anything motivation to learn Spanish and she offered to speak to me in Spanish so i can learn to talk to her. But she only texts once and doesn't dm me back for at least 24 hours, the last 2 messages were 3 days and now this last text was 4 days. After typing this I do believe she's interested because I she's still talking to me and she laughs, uses affectionate emojis and offered to speak Spanish to me. I'm just infatuated over this girl and just find myself waiting for that reply all day but I always give her space and she apologized once before saying she's been so busy🥺 I respect that and i said you don't have to apologize i understand! Just so confused, i understand people have lives and she has no responsibility to reply to me at all but what do you think is on her mind? I just think everyone has 2 minutes and if she really was interested she would reply the same day at least once ya know? Thank you!

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At the same time, for this girl I would rather her do this instead of just completely giving me all her attention. I feel like that would make me a better person in the relationship if it were to get that far because i would always feel the need to impress and show affection

[PrettyPriya]

Yes, you are right everyone has time to send a message. However, what if she also is getting/sending messages from her family (could be big family), friends (lots of them), classmates, etc.

Maybe she tries to send everyone some replies as she has time. Maybe the rest of her day is consumed by work or school or whatever. I wouldn't read too much into it. She is enthusiastic.

[djromero]

Appreciate the insight :)

[PrettyPriya]

@djromero Most welcome. So, are there plans to ever meet?

[djromero]

So I asked her on February 21st for lunch and she said when she's free. So it's been 2 weeks with no updates on her end

[PrettyPriya]

@djromero Is she still texting back and forth?

[djromero]

Yes the last text took her 4 days to respond and the one before that 3 days 😟

[djromero]

She's still laughing and they're not one worded responses either

[PrettyPriya]

@djromero Oh man. Well, that doesn't seem like a good thing. Barring something going on in her life, seems like she has distanced herself.

This is where I might send one last text saying "hey, I know you are busy but just wanted to say again how much I'd enjoy getting together for lunch. Let me know when you have some free time."

[djromero]

Yeah i was thinking the same unfortunately. She just responded today after 4 days and I haven't responded yet but yeah i was thinking that might have to be my next message to her.
Really appreciate the help, thank you. I'll give an update if we ever hang out :)

[PrettyPriya]

@djromero You are most welcome! I hope it works out and would LOVE to hear a good update when you get one! 😊