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I went on 2 dates with a girl. We kissed on the second date. The COVID19 shutdowns happened. We have been having weekly 2 hour phone calls ever since.

She says to me, "Maybe with the nice weather, you can come over this weekend for some responsibly socially distant drinks. :) "

I kind of continue flirting with her about how we might break that and be affectionate. She says, "We might... or I might be too much. I've been told that too."

So I go on flirting and she all of a sudden says:

"It's been a long time. Maybe a video call would be good? Or if you'd be good with a social distancing bbq this weekend with my best buddy, Jason, we can see each other then. haha"

See how she shifted things from it sounded like us being together one one one to all of a sudden having some guy in the mix?

She goes on to explain,

"Jason, I've known for years. We met on tinder and the dating thing didn't work, but we became great friends. I think you'd like him. He's a very fun version of me. haha."

The whole exchange was so confusing. I tell her to get back to me about it later. But somehow I felt that it was all made up bullshit. That there was no event coming up. I knew this Jason guy existed because she had told me about him and how they had originally met on Tinder before (on the first date).

Anyway, the next day, I am planning my weekend trying to choose between which ladies I will hang out with. I ask her if things were a go. She says, "... it's not going to work Saturday. My sister asked that I babysit my niece that evening."

Am I wrong to think this whole thing was odd? Is she shit testing me? Is she just not ready for a situation that could lead to us having sex? Is she trying to friendzone me? Or is she trying to get her male friend to meet me and approve of me?

Overpopulation is a very serious threat to humanity, this world can only sustain so many. I saw an ad on YouTube with data saying that Earth's population has doubled in the last 50 years.

This genuinely pisses me off because I think it's highly unfair to the couple who's been with each other for a long time and always wanted to have kids and would make great parents and could support their kids financially, physically and mentally, and they deserve to have kids, but their dreams of having those kids can potentially end because some people don't believe in birth control, people who don't like the feeling of condoms, people who put the carriage before the horse and had kids that they can't support, people who have kids to use them to abuse the welfare system, people who don't deserve to have kids but have them anyway.

I know this is more of an issue in other countries but I want to talk about American first.

In America (or at least where I live) has too many people who have sex irresponsibly and don't even think about the repercussions. The father leaves and the mother collects welfare and the father does the same to another and the cycle repeats. I've met these people in person, they don't give a fuck, the only thing they really give a fuck about i fucking. These people need to be sterilized and the ones who use the children for free welfare checks need to have their kids taken away and be raised in a proper home. Call me evil but what else can we do?

As for the other countries like India, Middle East, Africa, etc. I don't know what to do. They overpopulate mostly because of religious beliefs because they believe in having many children. You know what, I just thought about it, nobody should give up their rights to have children but everyone should give up their right to have more than 2 or 3 children, there problem solved! But who is going to tell these religious people that they can't have 6 kids they can only have 2 or 3?