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I saw a guy for a few months back in my early twenties. I settled with him because no one better came around, bad decision hence I should have waited for someone that really met what I was looking for. I was a virgin at the time, he was not. I really tested him with my virginity. I didn’t want to have sex right away, I wanted him to get tested for STDs which he did. After a month in, we finally did have sex but he did say that he wouldn’t have waited if I decided to hold off until marriage. When he visited, he bought almost everything he covered the bill 80+% of the time. But he wasn’t romantic, he made it clear there were times when he was romantic with his exes and he knew I wanted the same type of chivalry. All he did was take me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. He bought us a cruise package for his birthday but again no romantic gestures, more just taking out his wallet to cover the bare minimum. The other red flag id say is he talked about his exes more than I would have liked, even though he knew I was suspicious of that. He kept on saying that he was over them, he brought them up because he happened to have a lot of his social experiences with them

I saw a guy for a few months back in my early twenties. I settled with him because no one better came around, bad decision hence I should have waited for someone that really met what I was looking for. I was a virgin at the time, he was not. I really tested him with my virginity. I didn’t want to have sex right away, I wanted him to get tested for STDs which he did. After a month in, we finally did have sex but he did say that he wouldn’t have waited if I decided to hold off until marriage. When he visited, he bought almost everything he covered the bill 80+% of the time. But he wasn’t romantic, he made it clear there were times when he was romantic with his exes and he knew I wanted the same type of chivalry. All he did was take me out to dinner for Valentine’s Day. He bought us a cruise package for his birthday but again no romantic gestures, more just taking out his wallet to cover the bare minimum. The other red flag id say is he talked about his exes more than I would have liked, even though he knew I was suspicious of that. He kept on saying that he was over them, he brought them up because he happened to have a lot of his social experiences with them

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years now and we both are students (he’s in undergraduate and I’m in graduate school). This means that we both don’t have much money. His birthday comes before mine, and he mentioned that he wanted a specific pair of shoes he’d like. I got him those and asked if he’d like anything else which he declined to since he knows I don’t have much money and I already spent over $100 on his gifts.

my birthday arrives and I asked him what he got me since I told him what I wanted. He not only didn’t get me my request but got me literal $1 chocolate. He spent less than $20.

we often discuss marriage as well and then he started to complain about how expensive that will be already even though he hasn’t proposed yet in general let alone get the ring. We even went ring shopping in person and online, showed him what I liked, and he again said it was too expensive for his taste and opted for something that was the bare minimum. I told him to just forget it because it’s not even what I like/want and he should keep his money to himself at this point.

Am I being a bitch about it or is this the right reaction towards something like this? I’m not a gold digger but I just wish he at least tries and it seems like he’s not.