He gets to stick his pecker in her... will I ever get over this completely?

[Inthecraphole]

Many of you already know my story.

Back in 2020, I met this girl online on a coding forum. She was perfect. She never dated, never had a boyfriend, never kissed, and was still a virgin. She never even had a male friend before she met me!!!

We continued talking every day for months before we finally met in person, where she rejected me almost instantly.

I am still heartbroken to learn she is engaged to a new guy set to he married in a few months.

She is a devout Catholic and doesn't believe in sex until marriage. But on her wedding night, she will lose her virginity to him. They will be making love for the first time ever.

He gets to be her first everything.

Yes

No

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[whirled_up_girl]

You're right I do your story and I think you're one of the first people who I've responded to when I joined gag and I feel for you I really do, even if I don't qutie understand your fixation on finding a girl who's never had a first love. In this situation though it's my opinion that if this girl rejected you instantly upon meeting you in person then she was shallow. Is a girl who's this shallow worthy of being your first love? I also think if your feeling heartbroken, it's over an idea of being with someone who hadn't had a first love because why be heart broken over a girl who's so shallow she'd reject you on appearance alone? So that's just my two cents you can accept it or reject it but I hate to see someone so torn up over this kind of thing. So I voted yes, I think you will get over this completely.

[yofuknutz]

I think she was looking for someone to marry on the quick because she want to get laid and I guess something about this guy she just decided no way I don't even know what to say but that's showbiz

[mobiusforniner]

Some other dude putting his pecker in her really has nothing to do with you now, does it? Like, what do you really think you can do right now... to stop that? Rejection is part of life and you either adapt and overcome; or you get weeded out by natural selection.

Look man, I'm not even the best looking guy out there. But when my first girlfriend dumped me, I was devastated. I thought the same thing you're saying right here. But I didn't let that stop me. Nah- I wanted to prove to her- and especially to myself, that I am WORTH IT. So I invested in myself. Made new friends, started new hobbies. And guess what? Two years later my ex tried reconnecting with me. And that next time around it was me dumping her.

Not saying such a turn of events could happen for you. But I know that, after you invest and learn more about yourself- what limitless potential you can achieve- you'll find other people, and especially women, will want to learn about you.

[Miristheiss]

You are dealing in the scarcity mindset.
"She is the only one"..."I'll never find anyone like her"
Dude... quit putting women on a pedestal. There are 3.5 BILLION women on earth. There are tons of women. You are 27, you've waited a bit long to get going on this but if you want a catholic girl get yourself to catholic church and get involved in some catholic singles groups.

[Daniela1982]

Jesus, get over yourself. You and all these other self-defeatists on here. Everything you post is negative. How can anyone else like you if you don't seem to like yourself? Did she give you any reason for the rejection? Maybe she read it in you too?

[Subarugirl]

You should get over it, if you want to be with a virgin then you need to be the kind of guy that a virgin would be with.

[Inthecraphole]

What kinda guy is that? It is more so wanting a woman where I can be her first love more so than her first sex.

[Subarugirl]

Most virgins are virgins because of religious reasons. Are you religious?

[Inthecraphole]

I am a protestant Christian but thought about Catholicism

[Subarugirl]

Well that is a start

[NathanDavis]

you should get yours into a hospital... get the mental help that you deserve

[Inthecraphole]

You think I need to be admitted into the hospital? Damn

[Inthecraphole]

I am just thinking. She is gonna be all wet and he is gonna be pushing it into her.

[NathanDavis]

you said you want to get over this... therapy is the way, and yes there's doctors at hospitals and clinics

[Anonymous]

I doubt she even has a new boyfriend, she just told you that so you would leave her alone.

[Inthecraphole]

No I recently found her name on the wedding registry

[Opinion Owner]

You do know there's like 3 billion other vaginas in the world right?
Start looking for another one.

[Inthecraphole]

You really I think I am going to find the one without a romantic past though, like Rachel was?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I've seen female virgins right here on gag, you just have to pay attention.

[Anonymous]

You won't get over it because you don't have the balls to carry on with your life.

[Inthecraphole]

What makes you say that?

[Inthecraphole]

I am just thinking. She is gonna be all wet and he is gonna be pushing it into her.

[yofuknutz]

Well she sounds like she's shallow and she might even a divorce a guy once she has his children and then he'll have to pay her child support So in that respect you dodged a bullet but it doesn't hurt it still hurts the same

[Inthecraphole]

@yofuknutz
She is Catholic and she and her family do not believe in divorce

[yofuknutz]

Yeah ok most women DIVORCE! Wake up

[Kiran_Yagami]

You'll get over it if you want to get over it. Right now, you clearly don't want to.

[888theGreat]

people aim to high a lot

[Inthecraphole]

I aim too high? How?

[888theGreat]

I could not beat how Lee Majors and marry farrah Fawcet

[888theGreat]

I am going to answer your problem. You are not being realistic. Because you want something doesn't me you get it and in some cases unrealistic. I mean I would like 10,000 ounces of gold or $1 million cash , but I am realistic enough to know that is not going to happen, but if I keep dreaming of those anyway , I am not ever going to move on.

[Inthecraphole]

How am I not being realistic?

[888theGreat]

You say I am ugly , short , don't make enough money , and white for reasons. It is not that. You just want certain things and can't except not getting it.

[Twalli]

You won't get over it because you don't want to.

[Inthecraphole]

But she was exactly what I was looking for at the time... never had a romantic past.

[Inthecraphole]

I am just thinking. She is gonna be all wet and he is gonna be pushing it into her.

[Twalli]

You obviously were not what she was looking for.

[Inthecraphole]

But do you not think I will find another girl like her when we first met?

[Twalli]

If you want a girl that isn't illegal, no.

[Tstrbrainer]

Question, are you a cuck?

[sensible27]

She's not a trophy?

[Inthecraphole]

It is just the thought of them making love... it hurts

[sensible27]

(i don't think you want to move on but okay..)

[InYourHead]

You'll get over her

[yofuknutz]

Does he sound like the type?

[Anonymous]

move on loser

[Inthecraphole]

That is a horrible thing to say

[Opinion Owner]

You deserve it

[Inthecraphole]

Why is that?

[Anonymous]

You’re pathetic.