Guys, if you got a girl pregnant from a one night stand and have no intentions of a serious relationship with her, would you?

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Say she got pregnant from a one night stand. That’s all it was. Just a fck. And u don’t want anything serious with her. Would you support her and the baby

Raaj4you · Accepted Answer

First, she must prove that's it's my baby by pre-natal DNA paternity test. If baby is not mine then it's not my headache. If it's my baby then I will tell her that you are not my dream girl, I don't want babies with you and tell her to go for Abortion ASAP in front of me. I think it's her mistake that she didn't take the contraceptive pills. It will be her mistake if she wants to give birth to baby.

No, I would never accept her as my wife bcoz she is not my type. I might take my baby from her or support the baby financially bcoz it's my baby too.

Flatmanlewis · Accepted Answer

It’s not “if I got a girl pregnant” but rather “If I fathered a child would I be a man and be a father to that child”.

Yes.

Hell yes.

F#@K yes. What kind of man walks away from that? The single most common denominator of people who commit crimes, suicides, are homeless, experience substance abuse, and failed relationships is - in all cases - absent fathers. To doom some poor young child to an uphill battle in life because “I wasn’t ready” is the epitome of shallow and disgusting. That’s is some next level evil shit.

DreamLife7 · Accepted Answer

Why would you attempt to get pregnant by a man that doesn't like u? 🤣🤣 do u know how pathetic u sound and how ugly you must be to resort to this

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

If I was a guy I would ask her to abort it and I would pay/take her but if she didn't I would just block her and never see her again lol.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Navigating the waters of unexpected parenthood, aren't we? It's a situation that demands a blend of responsibility and communication, spiced with a dash of maturity. So, let's break it down with some love and real talk. Firstly, the essence of a relationship, or in this case, a connection, isn't defined by its duration but by its impact. A one-night stand leading to pregnancy is a high-impact event! Even if the romantic sparks didn't fly beyond that one night, stepping up to the responsibilities as a parent is non-negotiable. Supporting the child financially, emotionally, and in any possible way is part of embracing the unexpected role of a parent. It might be a plot twist in your life's story, but hey, it's an opportunity to show character growth and responsibility. Let's not forget, every child deserves love and support, regardless of the circumstances of their arrival. 🌟

AviatorTom · Answer

I would live up to my responsibility. She and I would talk and decide what's best for her and the child, and that's what I would do.

A_Nihilist · Answer

In England we don't really have a choice. You pay child support or you go to jail.

Pretty sure that's how that works.

Me personally, I would tell her my honest opinion. I don't want kids, I didn't plan for it to happen, keep it if you want but I'd rather you aborted it because no one wants to grow up with no father. I'm not going to pay child support unless you twist my wrist legally and I want no part in the child's life if you keep it.

I don't care how scummy or irresponsible it may sound. Contraception is a two way street and nobody is forcing me to live a life I don't want to live. Especially over a mistake.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Other.

I have no clue, it's a horrifying scenario. My life would be instantly forced upside-down. I'd rather not think about it, but..

I think I'd have to participate, because it's the right thing to do by the kid.
Like, maybe we should try dating aswell, the best thing would be if we could both be around as the kid grow up. But we should both also be open to just be friends, because 'we' are no longer what's important. I would rather not we end things badly.

CriticalCatDad · Answer

This is why I don't have sex at all. If this happened and I told her I didn't want to be involved she'd force me to pay child support for fucking her in the first place. All women would do this and if you claim they wouldn't you're an absolute dumbass who doesn't understand female nature

SotiCoto · Answer

Not applicable. I've never had sex with anyone I didn't want a relationship with. The whole concept of the one night stand is fundamentally opposed to my goals in the first place, since to me sex was just a means of getting / keeping relationships and not something I sought for its own sake.

That said, I am a divorcee and I do have a daughter by my ex-wife... and I tried to do what I could for her without legal pressure.

PapaJedi · Answer

I don't like one nights stands and not interested with it. However, if I make a lady pregnant it is also my fault. I would then marry the lady and create family. At this old age I want to start one. I wouldn't make love with her at the first place if I don't like her much.

clampfan101 · Answer

If I somehow made the terrible mistake of having a one night stand, and that mistake got her pregnant, I would pay the price. Marry her if I was still single, send her support money every month until the kid was 18 or something like that if I was already in a serious relationship.

genericname85 · Answer

try to work it out. maybe even get together if she's up for it and if we can make it work. i wanna be the father in that childs life even if that means we take turns rising the child. but if she's trying to get me out of my own childs life, i will do my very best and use all legal ways not to give her a dime.

Staximus · Answer

I'm not stupid enough to get a woman pregnant during a one night stand. If I was, hopefully she wouldn't be stupid enough to keep the baby. If she did, it's my child too. I'd have to support the baby at least. I don't know why women keep babies from one night stands.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

It’s not possible. I don’t have sex with women i don’t completely trust. NOT getting pregnant is actually REALLY easy. If you had an “accidental” pregnancy, you’re either an idiot or an asshole. Probably a bit of both.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't have a one night stand so that wouldn't happen but if I was spiked or something and I've therefore added to the global overpopulation issue then I'll draft a note and say sayonara to the world post haste because I can't add to the world issue without redressing the balance

JHNS98 · Answer

If and when I have a one-night stand, I'll make sure to use a codnom. If the condom fails, I would advise her to take plan B pills properly, and get an abortion if she still get pregnant despite the pills.

sawno · Answer

She'd have to proof its mine but then i'd take responsibility.

saroj786 · Answer

Firstly, i would praise myself for impregnating a girl in one night, thats a big deal.
Then i would do DNA test, if no then fuck off..
If yes then abortion is the option. But if girl doesn't want that then you're fucked... RIP

Anonymous · Answer

It's not about supporting the woman. The child is half theirs. The child didn't ask for it, but it happened. Men would step up more for their kids if the laws supported them equally and woman stopped playing games and put kids first too.

Bobbysworld · Answer

Yea id support and be there for the baby. Depending on her personality if we didn't get along I'd be around for the baby and help financially but not her. If it was a one night thing and we didn't get along.

9in_Serpent · Answer

It depends on the conversation we had before and think of abortion as an option if none of us can afford a baby in this increasingly hostile to people and life society we live in

slatyb · Answer

If b she can price paternity, the court will order the father to pay child support.

handsomelad70 · Answer

I'd obviously support the innocent baby. I'd have to think about if I still wanted her as a partner.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Abortion. If she says no I should have used a raincoat. Tough lesson. I'm in too deep now and would support child.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I would pursue her seriously after that with the intention to get married.

Juxtapose · Answer

I would obviously get her the morning after pill and be done with this whole ridiculous scenario.

Anonymous · Answer

I am astonished that anyone would have casual sex unprotected these days, guy or girl.

scott04sa22 · Answer

I never had one night stands or had a Serious friends with benefits.

DextroShade · Answer

I would give her a mifeprestone smoothie while we discussed our plans for the future.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Nope if she can have an abortion I can have a financial abortion.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would but no way in hell I'll have unprotected sex when I don't want a kid

MasterKS · Answer

raising a baby is way more harder than produce it, so abortion is best option, if she dont want that, i be practical and move on.

Anonymous · Answer

Now you a single mom

jahaims · Answer

I don't have casual sex and never would.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I would support my family

Pterodon · Answer

I’d pay my court ordered child support

shortster · Answer

Get married

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