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Okay, so I will try to explain something. The thing is a while back, a black man posted a screenshot of his daughter (white skin) in braids like this and the white mom didn't like it. She said to take them off and everyone accused her of being racist. However, whenever a white girl does it, why does everyone think It's not okay?

That's confusing to me. So basically you have to have it done by a black person for it to be okay or you have to be half black for it to be okay? What's the deal? You do you. I personally find the hairstyle kind of ugly for white girls but you do you. Mind your business.

My best friend pat.
When his girlfriend and him were together we didn't do nothing together and we talk from time to time.. but nothing more then that. Plus I had a boyfriend at the time

But in oct his girlfriend didn't want to work out the relationship. . and that same day I wanted to work it out with my boyfriend but he ended it that day.

That same day me and pat both admitted our feelings for each other
Etc
Well he told his cousin that he will give us a chance but he needs to get away from the city we r living in rn. Because all they do is gossip and shit like that


Well.. then.. the day after I spent the night. Literally. He and his ex were back together.. and he fucking snap at me saying like how he and his girl were together etc. I'm just like ok whatever
And he said in a message he didn't even like me. And he wants to be with her and her only.

But it was like a wk after they got back together. He started to talk to me again etc

pat. literally just confused the shit out of me.

He and his cousin were talking about how the relationship should be like trust honesty communication. . no jealousy etc and he was eyeing at me the whole time.

And then he touched my arm not once not twice but three times

And then he touched my finger not once but twice

And then I touched his finger by a mistake. ..


And he opened the door for me not twice but 3 times.


And now he told his so called girlfriend he loved her.. but they hardly talk on the phone they text more.. then talk and then he says he is married to her. And wants to have kids with her.. I mean hell she not even there to even help him him out nor there for his baptism.

But a few years ago she was there for his mom funeral and they went to school together. And her mom is pressuring him to get back together ( and now they r back together.. ) but fuck his FB and her fb says they are single.


What was his actions telling me? .
My best friend thinks pat likes me.

But what do u think?