Girls and guys what’s your shoulder size? am I too big? ?

[Anonymous]

Online they say average female shoulder is around 35 cm. I am 157 cm 48 kg, though I am little curvy (my all weight always goes to bust) but I always thought I am very petite, people often say I am so small (I don't know they mean only height wise or body wise too but no one have ever called me fat or thick or anything of that sort) but apparently my shoulders are 37-39 cm, if I measure like as shown in 1st photo (above) it’s 37 and if I check like as shown in 2nd pic (below) it’s 38-39... is it too broad for a girl? How is it possible... When I asked my mom she said if I am 39 then she can’t imagine girl being 35 because it would be abnormally small... I am so confuse 😰 I am feeling insecure 😣 please answer what’s your measurements and are you considered petite or broad (by people around you) ?

oh yea and guys please answer too... many Kpop guys have 44 cm shoulders? means either they are too skinny 🤪 or I am too broad 😔

[Cataphract]

I have absolutely no idea. If you think that you have "manly shoulders", most of female clothes are designed to emphasise your hips or bust anyways. Just wear clothes that emphasise your hips and then even if you do have big shoulders it won't be noticed.

[Asker]

I will not say manly but yea apparently it’s big, not much smaller than average guys, I am feeling very insecure now 😔 but yea thanks for advise though you right perfect clothes are essential of course

[Cataphract]

Don't obsess over stupid little details you can't change. If it bothers you just find the easiest way you can "fix" it. However always know that the "problem" is on your mind much longer than on anyone else's.

[Asker]

😊 Yea right ty ^^

[TallAnon]

Kinda hard to measure on your own, I got to about 65cm. I'm 2m tall and 140kg. If anything that should tell you that you will definitely look petite to me.

[Asker]

Oh my 😱 that’s awesome... for guys it’s bigger the better but for girls it’s different 😅

[TallAnon]

You sound fine to be honest, I imagine you're tiny ^^

[Asker]

Compared to u lot hehe

[TallAnon]

So don't worry about it 😊

[Asker]

Yea thank you so much I am feeling better
😊🙌🏻

[Anonymous]

You are fine 😂

[Asker]

What’s your measurement?

[Opinion Owner]

44 😂

[Asker]

Lol 🤦🏻‍♀️ I think i am too big 😔

[Opinion Owner]

You are fine 😊

[Asker]

🙂... hopefully it ain’t turn off (as a girl) 🙃

[Opinion Owner]

Nah it’s not
You can follow me if you want

[Asker]

I hope it’s not ☹️ ... it’s ok am fine ty for answering 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

No problem anytime 😊