Okay, so I will try to explain something. The thing is a while back, a black man posted a screenshot of his daughter (white skin) in braids like this and the white mom didn't like it. She said to take them off and everyone accused her of being racist. However, whenever a white girl does it, why does everyone think It's not okay?
That's confusing to me. So basically you have to have it done by a black person for it to be okay or you have to be half black for it to be okay? What's the deal? You do you. I personally find the hairstyle kind of ugly for white girls but you do you. Mind your business.
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Question: are you for white girls doing this? Yes or no?
What do you think about white girls that wear box braids?
Box braid are uncomfortable and heavy, especially when they are done like that. I like them spaced out and jumbo size. I don't know why white girls wear their hair that way when they don't need that hairstyle.
As for the second picture, that black man is a troublemaker and was trying to stir stuff up on the internet. A lot of black men who festishize white women secretly hate themselves and also the white women they date, the same goes for us yellow black women. I have faced abuse and hate from the same darker men who want to be with me. They secretly want to prove you to hate them and think you're better, so I don't know what he and her talked about prior to that text message convo.
Becky is not wrong for saying her daughter is more white in her eyes, because she is the mom, it's like me wanting my biracial child if I had one to be more black in my eyes because she came from me, a black woman. She thinks the hairstyle is ugly, that is her opinion. let her style the baby's hair the way she wants to, she's the mom.
Some black people call straight hair flat, boring and claim it reminds them of dog hair when they want to be rude. I think the black baby daddy gets on her nerves and they probably fight a lot, so he started stuff to make her look bad. I don't know, so does he dislike white women now? or will he still be chasing them? find out on the next episode of Dragon Ball Z.
Lol i felt the same way was going to comment same but you already did and she just said she didn't liked the hairstyle but he went ranting kn her but she's black means he was being the racist for a hairstyle yet we don't know the full convo so can't say bug after he said that she's black then mom fought like she was her kid to bc she was afraid that she would be taken from her it was insecurity and a bit of ego but the guy clearly manipulated in my opinion
If you’re black or part black, then box braids are a part of your culture. If you’re white however, these type of braids are not really a part of your culture. Tbh I have nothing against cultural exchange; it’s natural and it is how so many current day cultural traditions have come to be. But I think the reason why black people are sensitive about white people appropriating black styles like box braids, is because for the longest time these styles were seen as “ghetto” and “ratchet” and “unprofessional” when done on black women. There’s even stories of black women being fired from jobs because their hair wasn’t “professional” (aka straight or white looking) enough. So black women have suffered from discrimination because of their hair and have been stereotyped because of certain hairstyles. So for them to go and see that the same styles that they were looked down upon for wearing, are now being regarded as fashionable and “avant-garde” just because they’re being done on white women now, is insulting. So I definitely understand why people are against white women wearing box braids. I think as a general rule, white women should just avoid this hairstyle because it is insensitive. Obviously it’s not the end of the world, but it doesn’t sit right with me. I’m not black though so at the end of the day it’s black womens’ call but this is just my perspective on it.
I practically snorted when I saw your closing line to this rant. “Mind your business”, yet you made this post, very much NOT minding your business. That’s what’s confusing me, personally. Now that that’s out of the way, Let me help you out a bit, by saying that you are very much missing the “bigger picture” of the image you shared. This little girl is mixed, and 9/10 when the mom is white, she has no idea what to do with her child’s textured hair. I imagine that the dad took his kid to get her hair braided because her mother is unwilling to learn how to tame it. So here is where the issue comes in — mom rejected a huge part of her child’s cultural background. By insisting on getting the braids taken out, it shows that she is another unfortunate case of “white woman wants little mulatto babies, but doesn’t want their struggles”. She carving a path for her daughter not to embrace being a woman of color, to feel shame about it, and to lean towards her white side. THIS is the problem. Not how white women look with box braids and why you feel it’s so stupid and unfair for them to be shamed for wearing the style. I wish you had made a conscious effort to understand the situation, before you skittered off online to vent as if their problem is affecting you. This post is very tone deaf, and completely insensitive on your part.
with the specific case you mentioned it’s likely that the mixed daughter has her father’s hair or at least something close to it. He is doing what’s best to keep it healthy as a young girl, in protective braids. I’m sure if it was something closer to her moms he wouldn’t have felt the need to do that at all. Is the mom racist? I don't know. But it’s weird how she had a baby by a black man while refusing his culture at the same time. I doubt she’s even aware of how to take care of her daughters hair. Doesn’t look like she’s interested in learning either. And that’s... bad. To say the least.
But anyway I don’t agree with white people wearing black hairstyles for cultural reasons but even on a practical level... these styles are primarily to manage and manipulate coily/kinky hair. So a lot of these white girls end up with damage because their hair is too straight and loose to support the styles in the first place. And with that being said, no I don’t like it or support it but I’m not going to go out of my way to be an asshole or even let the individual know my opinion unless they ask. I see it, and mind my business. I’m sure plenty of folks hate the way I dress, they won’t say shit to my face because there’s no point. Live your life and wash your own ass. Please.
I think white girls with box braids look like clowns. The style simply isn’t made for their hair texture. It doesn’t look good on them, and because their hair is structurally different it’ll probably cause some of their hair to fall out. It’s fine for people who are mixed with black to wear the style, but they should look at their hair texture first and see if they’re a good fit for the style. Box braids can be very heavy and if done wrong they can be very tight. They can cause temporary hair loss or permanent traction alopecia. Essentially the style is not meant for straight hair.
@blondfrog Yes, but their curls are typically much looser and and still can’t handle the weight of box braids. The hair is structurally different. Black hair is so strong that it is able grow up. White hair typically grows down. You should understand you hair and it’s needs before putting box braids on your head or else you could end up bald.
I feel like you would be biased either way lol. I mean no offense but you already sound like you hate whites and are racist. I wouldn't be surprised if you never dated a white person before.
@blondfrog I don’t hate while people. I’m trying to save you from a potential bald spot. I haven’t dated a white person. I don’t even know that many white people.
I already have alopecia but from auto immune not traction I lost my eyebrows, facial hair and everything. However when the head on my hair grew back it not 100% it was nice seeing my hair curl and it felt good too when it naturally twisted and grew dreads on their own.
People can wear their hair however they want. However they need to be aware that in certain parts of the US, you'd have a hard time getting a job because of your job. It wasn't that long ago that blacks people's hair was more than just hair. The enslaved braided maps and hid dry rice in their hair when they tried to escape slavery. There have been laws saying that black people had to shave or cover their hair because white people got offended that black people can do a variety of extravagant hair styles. Today states are just starting to pass laws saying that black people can not be discriminated against based on how their hair naturally grows from their scalp.
If it isn't your culture, you have no say in whether it's okay or not. I'm black and it personally doesn't bother me unless someone is being disrespectful. Too many people take from black people and we hardly EVER get credit for what we start. If you want to wear braids at least educate yourself and be mindful as to where they come from, why they are and the burden that comes with wearing them. Be mindful of black people and don't just take from us. Same goes for any other culture. Be mindful of people. Cultures aren't here just for people to steal from.
Did I say anywhere in my post that I did? Why is it when someone talks about treating someone that comes from a whole other group with respect, the first thought that comes to mind is to argue or discredit? Destroying statues in my opinion doesn't solve any issues, it only creates more BUT at the same time a lot of these people from history that we PRAISE were not good people. Not in any sense. They were racist, sexist. Abraham Lincoln couldn't have given two fucks if slavery was embolished and he only signed for it because it was better financially. Why is that such a triggering subject that you can jump behind but you can't support respecting someone's culture when it harms NOBODY?
Also you phrased that as if that wasn't black history as well.
A lot of the people we praise aren't good people? Yet, blm praises George Floyd who was high on fentanyl and crystal meth. Had a criminal record of robberies and robbed a pregnant woman at gun point to her pregnant belly.
I don't think George Floyd was a good person. Same goes for most of the victims of police shooting that BLM highlights. I don't agree with BLM AT ALL. It's a hate movement. Your grouping of all blacks together is really showing. I didn't say one thing about BLM or George Floyd. I addressed the issues you brought up. What I said originally is IF IT ISN'T YOUR CULTURE, SIT DOWN and SHUT UP. Simple. That isn't a black thing. That's an all cultural thing. If you're not from that culture, you don't get a say in how their people feel about certain topics. More than black people have culture.
Obviously, people are free to do whatever they want. However there are certain looks that make people immediately categorize a person. Either positive or negative. Braids for example is something that is mostly seen in the black community. I'm not saying a white girl can't have braids, but she has to deal with certain judgments. Many see this look as "trashy" because many who have this look are unfortunately of lower class. So that white girl is going to be seen as such. Even if she herself may not be trashy at all. What we portray out to the world is how we will get judged. And I can guarantee you that a white girl with braids, is more likely to attract black people than white people. It really depends on how you want to portray yourself out to the world
I think braids could look nice on anyone if they're done right. I think people with natural curly or course texture hair often look better in braids than people with naturally straight hair.
I also think that a lot of black people have issues with this style on white people because black people were often told by white people that this style is "trashy" or "unprofessional". It feels like double standards when white people start to adopt it. Because African Americans were originally robbed of their identity and background, many of them take great pride in their culture.
Here's my attempt at an analogy: Imagine a group of kids with vitiligo (the skin condition where white patches develop on the skin) start their own style of makeup based on their skin condition. Maybe they paint each white patch with a different color or something else. They're taking ownership of that condition and turning it into their own sense of pride.
Now imagine someone like me (without vitiligo) starts to paint rainbow patches all over my skin, clearly imitating their style... I would look like a weirdo, to say the least.
Imagine if white people told black people “hey u can’t wear tucked in trousers and a tie, that’s a white thing, stop stealing from our culture”
that’s basically what’s happening here... black people being racist and trying to stop us wearing something they invented... like wtf... let em wear whatever the f they want... it’s their body.. they can do whatever the f they want with their own body... so fucking what if they immitated your race? would u Be mad at a parrot for imitating a human voice too? would u say “FUCKING THIEF” to the parrot?
If ur gonna stop white girls wearing braids then no black people are allowed to wear tucked in trousers with a shirt tie, And ur also not allowed to drink tea... jus to be fair... fucking retards
Why 2 dislikes? WhT I said is 100% logical and makes sense... I guess some dumb black people disliked cos they like to be hypocrites and say white people aren't allowed something but also at the same time wanna be entitled to white people creations... I don’t think so retards
We can’t have braids? U can’t have tea and smart suits! It’s only fair
Hair style does not exclusively belong to one race. Some races can rock certain ones better than others, but personally I don't think white chicks can pull off this style in particular, but I am not against them doing it.
A stripper I know sent me a snap with her hairstyle like that asking what I thought and I was deadass blunt with it, but still conveyed it in a way that she knew I was just giving her shit for it and ultimately don't care what she does at the end of the day with it.
I don't know what I am supposed to be saying yes or no to. Was not a yes or no question. I think a person should look the way they want to and let's put the race thing aside. I am so sick of everything being racialized. Can we not just look at people as individuals and not judge them on their immutable characteristics? There is nothing wrong with braids. And women of all races and creeds have worn braids. It's not a "black thing". Women have worn braids for decades, why is it a bad thing now? Society has become really stupid and petty. Wokeness is not bringing about equality, it's bringing about destruction.
I think they look good on some white girls, same as dreadlocks.
And to anyone who thinks it's somehow "racist". Hair, is not racist. Your race does not own any particular hairstyle, food, clothing style, or even language dialect.
Stop forming your entire personality and self image around the colour of your skin, and stop pushing your own perception of that skin colour onto other people you racist piece of shit.
If a black girl wants to straighten her hair, dye it blond, and wear a crop top, she can. If a white girl wants to get dreadlocks and where a Cheongsam, she can. If a Japanese girl wants to wear a lapintakki and cook rye bread, she can.
Black women wears box braids and or natural hair: trashy, rachet, poor, uneducated. This is litterally what people say/ unconsciously think. Black women can't even wear twists or locks without people saying/ thinking she's ugly/ ghetto trash.
But when a white women does it for some reason it's all good and fucking special. I don't like that and that's why I get upset when I see white women with box braids.
@blondfrog I know but I always felt pressured to have straight hair. The last two guys I was friends with ( both black) said they didn't like nappy headed black women... Or bitches the other one called them so...
Braids of any kind are not exclusively a black thing and neither are dreads for that matter, even cornrows can be traced far back as 5th century Greece. People in America gotta stop the stupid shit they do because all it does is divide the country. If Americans put as much effort in their education and studies as they do in being racist and PC all the fucking time, they'd realize how dumb they are for fighting over stupid shit. The only reason this couple should be fighting over their child's hair is if they were to keep sending the kid back and forth without doing the child's hair and letting it get all knotted up and wrecked.
This kind of thing is so dumb in our society. My experiences are usually the opposite of OP. I made a rap in bootcamp called Lackland Kings and I was told that since I wasn't black, "you can't do that." Imagine the reverse: "you can't stand vertically because a white guy discovered gravity." Its so stupid.
I used to get annoyed and think it was cultural appropriation before I had heard about CA. But now when each everyone who wants to be smart is shouting about this I just think, this is not a problem and it is a right to style your own hair like you want.
Braids aren't a "black invention." I personally think its looks ratchet (as in, "trashy"), but people can wear their hair however the hell they want. This two stories are just idiots being idiots. Getting mad over "black hair." Of all the stupidity out there. Once again, braids aren't a "black thing." People like this make me lose faith in humanity.
If you look up THIS type of braid it was invented on the Nile River in Africa, 3k years ago by people who had been living there for around 26k years at that time. Yes, there are many different braid styles all over the world tho.
@hahahmm But people all over the world had braids. And even if what you're saying is true (it's 3am and I'm on my phone, so I'm not going to open a new mobile tab to look it up), the implication with "black people" would be referring to modern African Americans (like me), not some ancient tribe thousands of years ago, as if the complainers actually care about those people. It's all just a power game to them, cause they wanna be cultural gatekeepers. "This is OURS! You can't have it!"
I'm not saying I agree with the idea that nobody else can wear the braids. Just saying about the origin. And I agree with the idea you have that the people who complain are just playing games too.
I don't know I think if u got the hair its appropriate because curly hair can be a pain in the ass. Otherwise it just looks kinda trashy to me. I'd rather see it on a black girl its what makes y'all unique. y'all can do this shit and wear wigs and it looks cool. But white girls can't/ shouldn't.
The father sounded kind of racist too honestly. That said I don't care, do what you want its your hair and if some one is so fucking privileged that the only thing they can find to bitch about is some one elses hair style, then I consider that a mark of a successful society, other societies have to worry about starving to death, diseases and war, we only have to worry about offending some one with a hairstyle.
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