We’ve been dating for 11 months today but there’s something that worries me, he follow a lot of girls on instagram. When we started dating he was following even more girls, like ig models and random girls he thought they were pretty. Honestly I felt so bad when he did that so I told him (he even asked for their names on models accs). I had a talk with him and said he followed them because he thought they were pretty, and I told him to stop doing that; he stopped and even unfollowed all of them.
~It’s funny because he always sent to me like long paragraphs expressing his feelings towards me, he even said I’m the most beautiful woman to him? Even though he kept on doing this.
I told that on July, and since then he didn’t follow any model or random girl. But 3 months ago he made a finsta (that’s like a private acc for close friends) and he added me; but now he adds again some random girls he didn’t even follow on his main acc? I don’t get it. And actually they’re pretty and attractive, why he does that if he says he changed? And recently he added out of nowhere a girl who follows him on his main, she’s not even his friend. I still don’t get why he does this, because I commented on his pics so if he’s hiding anything about our relationship he wouldn’t follow her on that acc? I don’t know it’s confusing.
I mean, this thing is weird. Like, he has our name in our biography, even with hearts and stuff; he follows couple and relationship accounts and tag me there, so technically he’s not hiding anything? But when he followed those girls back before July, he even wasn’t technically hiding anything.
So what does that mean? Is it normal that my boyfriend continues adding female friends (or friends of friends) on his main and finsta? Should I be worried about?
**And by the way, he’s always so sweet to me, like telling me he loves me, and that I’m beautiful to him and all that stuff everyday. It’s just that behavior confuses me.
~It’s funny because he always sent to me like long paragraphs expressing his feelings towards me, he even said I’m the most beautiful woman to him? Even though he kept on doing this.
I told that on July, and since then he didn’t follow any model or random girl. But 3 months ago he made a finsta (that’s like a private acc for close friends) and he added me; but now he adds again some random girls he didn’t even follow on his main acc? I don’t get it. And actually they’re pretty and attractive, why he does that if he says he changed? And recently he added out of nowhere a girl who follows him on his main, she’s not even his friend. I still don’t get why he does this, because I commented on his pics so if he’s hiding anything about our relationship he wouldn’t follow her on that acc? I don’t know it’s confusing.
I mean, this thing is weird. Like, he has our name in our biography, even with hearts and stuff; he follows couple and relationship accounts and tag me there, so technically he’s not hiding anything? But when he followed those girls back before July, he even wasn’t technically hiding anything.
So what does that mean? Is it normal that my boyfriend continues adding female friends (or friends of friends) on his main and finsta? Should I be worried about?
**And by the way, he’s always so sweet to me, like telling me he loves me, and that I’m beautiful to him and all that stuff everyday. It’s just that behavior confuses me.
