My girlfriend follows random boys on Instagram, should I be worried?

[fisher]

When I ask her she says she doesn't know them personally. Do you think it's normal for her to follow those boys randomly? Should I be worried?

I know this is a common question for boys, but unfortunatelly I have a similar issue as explained in that question :(

My boyfriend follow random girls on Instagram

[Anonymous]

I follow women on instagram all the time. Porn stars, etc. how ever. I also only ever park my metaphorical car in my girlfriends metaphorical garage if you get my meaning. When I was younger Id get jealous and over protective of any man my woman talked to that wasn’t me. Or their immediate family. That was not attractive or a trait that women want. And also not worth the stress. And could and sometimes did. Lead the the relationship ending. So I took the approach of
“as long as they are being faithful. It doesn’t matter “


The fact is. We are people. We have lives outside of our relationships. And we need to be able to have those lives too. If we expect our partner to cut off or end parts of who they are to fit our idea of a perfect partner the question should then be? Are we with the right person? Are we in the right here thought wise? Are we being over bearing? Controlling?


TLDR : if she is faithful to you and you to her. The rest is what ever. At least thats how I approach it.

[ThinkFitness23]

You can have concerns about anything, your concerns should be known, this is a relationship.


Now the way you go about this is KEY.


No raised voices, not during an argument about something else but pick a time and sit down and talk about it, let her know right of the bat that she hasn’t done anything wrong.


Her personal choice to follow these people has caused concern, there may also be a time where things are the other way around.

[SoftCliff]

It depends on: are they public figures or models, or just random guys? Also, does she actively like and comment under their photos on a daily basis? I think you should talk to her directly. No Gagger can help you get into her mind. We can only guide with our personal experiences or theories. And my friend, that won't be of any help to you and your on going relationship.

You need to tell her exactly how you are feeling. You may or may not get the answers you hope for and she may evade the question. But look at everything. What she says verbally and her body language. From my experience, body language tells a lot that the mouth doesn't. If you want this relationship or any relationship to work out, both of you have to stop playing games and just communicate openly and honestly. The games are a complete waste of time and energy.

[Anonymous]

yes. you should be worried. seems a bit immature also. is she younger than you?

the only people i don't know who i follow are like artists and general funny accounts. having a partner already, i have literally no interest in following random guys i don't know.

so, seeing from that perspective, if you were her why would you follow a bunch of random girls you don't know? she sounds like she's single...

[Summeroflove]

You mean public figures? I don’t typically like when someone random I don’t know follows me.

As long as she isn’t cheating

[Guy13]

I woukd be very worried if my girlfriend was following any guys anywhere 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Avicenna]

Yes, you should be concerned and ask her why she’s following random guys.

[Moose304]

It's a red flag. What you should ALWAYS be looking for is your SO NOT being where they are supposed to be on a continuing basis. If he normally gets home from work at 5 PM and now is getting home at 7 PM all the time something is going "bump" in the night! A red flag means you need to be watchful. Also, don't be their jailer. If you can't trust them walk!

[LiliTyaka]

I wouldn't overthink if she follows random boys on insta. As long as your relationship with her is the same as before so nothing has changed this is definetly not a alarming sign.

[MzAsh]

I have a hunch that she’s just following them back because they followed her first and she’s being polite. I wouldn’t worry about it.

[Asad1ONE1]

Damn I hope you're right. But why is your opinion the only one of it's kind in the entire WWW? Lol

[supercutebutt]

Nope. Someone has to stretch out her holes.

[Chthou95]

Break it off. She's gonna bullshit you and tell you its not a big deal but no woman just follows random dudes for no reason unless she's keeping a scope on them to replace you. Break it off man

[slatyb]

No, you shouldn't. She likes men. That's a good thing.

[fonduegirl]

What? Christ, no. Unless she's like flirting with them, there's no need to worry.

[art84]

Are the guys better looking than you? Maybe she just fines tham attractive.

[EaterPeter]

Yes. You can only worry. Don't you follow random chicks? I do.

[julianaking2019]

Yes I know I get worried when my husband follows women on TikTok.

[bubblegunnn]

Yup. Interrogative her might be work

[katiesmuff]

I'd think that is a signal for you!

[Anonymous]

No but it's her problem, just break up and avoid dating slits

[Anonymous]

No, you shouldn't be so insecure.

[In_Trance]

Stay off her Instagram

[CharlieDMX]

No. Don't be paranoid

[Anonymous]

Only if she is chatting with them.

[Mcarlier84]

Yeah

[DiDi1101]

Yes you should be

[jimmy2]

Yes I would be