You’re right—that’s disrespectful. He has wandering eyes. He shouldn’t have wandering eyes if he’s committed and loyal to you. You did say you two are still teenagers though, so I suppose the raging hormones may make it more difficult for him to exercise self-restraint. Hopefully he can grow out of it—like you’ve grown out of thirsting over random strangers.
I don’t think it would be a bad idea to let him know how it affects you though. If he cares about you, he should let this habit go. Just don’t make it sound demanding—as that may make him defensive and it may turn into an argument and he may label you as being controlling. Approach the topic in a way where you’re simply letting him know how it hurts you and how it would mean a lot to you if he would stop. Then, the ball’s in his court. It’ll be his opportunity to show how much he cares about your feelings.
If he stops, then great. I’m happy for you two and I’m happy that he made the right decision. If he doesn’t stop, well. That will just show that he has room to grow and mature to become a better boyfriend.
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I sense the insecurity in you. How much do you trust him?
Do you think he may not like you and may choose someone else over you?
Liking a pic shouldn't be considered as cheating but you should let him know what you feel about it (calmly though). You both can figure that out together.
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Just dump him & move on. You're only a teen, not married. There are other guys who won't rub your face in the fact that he finds other girls at your school attractive.
You should talk to him about how it's making you feel, personally, I think his actions are a little iffy but it kind of depends?
It seems like you are not his priority
deal with it
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