A suppressed Psychological Study performed irrefutably at Kent State University found that 90% of ALL heterosexual men innately harbor a potential arousal response to suggestive imagery of preteen and young adolescent females.
Based on objective studies, rather than anecdotal evidence and adamant denial rants (which mean nothing), about 90% of men are attracted to preteen girls.
A peer-reviewed scientific journal study (Behavior Therapy 26, 681-694, 1995), conducted by Kent State University, 1995 (Lori L. Oliver, Gordon C. Nagayama, Richard Hirschman) was conducted on a sample of normal (adult attracted) male volunteers using the "penile plethysmograph". (In effect, an in-arbitrary ‘bullshit detector’; concupiscent erections DON’T lie. )
The team carried out hundreds of tests exposing men to female adult and child images.
95% exhibited arousal to the female adult images.
A staggering 88.7% exhibited arousal to the female child (less than 12 years old) images.
Prior to the study, 80% of the participants claimed to have no attraction to children and all of them had no history of illegal or legal youth-attracted behavior.
THAT he is attracted, is not a concern; WHAT HE ELECTS TO DO ABOUT HIS RESPONSE, is what you must be circumspect regarding.
Statistics affirm that one out of every four Western females (25%) experience societally 'inappropriate' pre-18 interactions; likewise one out of five (20%) Western males likewise share similar 'minor' sexualized interactions. FBI profiles affirm those so sexualized, historically repeat behaviors into the next generation, especially if they intermarry. I speak from personal firsthand Victim experience~
One of our society's hypocritical 'little secrets'.
I would certainly ask why. And he better have a very good reason. So I would say yes.
I would also ask him if you were to tell his friend about this, would he be happy about it? The fact that he is liking his 14-year-old daughter's pics. If he gets weird about it, you have your answer right there.
It could be just being friendly, but hard to believe. If it was my daughter, I would have a talk with my friend, and never let him around my daughter again.
I feel like this is something that the Father and Mother / his friends should know. If they don't care, then it's probably nothing. I have a feeling they will care though.
u His friend has an underage daughter who posts provocative pictures? Yeah worst case scenario he's taking advantage of his position as a "family friend" and hopes to groom her. Even if that's not the case it's still inappropriate and you should not only talk to your boyfriend about it but definitely talk to her father.
Even though it's not directly your business what she does or whether or not her dad allows that it's still unhealthy and dangerous for a girl her age to post that stuff.
That's really, really bad. Definitely a cause for concern and a valid reason to breakup. He shouldn't even be following 14-year-old girls on Insta, whether they're friends' kids that he knows personally or not.
Fair warning, HE won't think it's a valid reason to break up and will probably argue about it. But it definitely, 100% is. And this is coming from an incredibly open-minded chick.
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Yes its not a good look. However this is normal in todays age. The issue really is the friend allowing his 14 yo to dress in a sexualized fashion. I know someone like this the 12 year old wears string bikinis crop tops has facial piercings and vapes and mom encourages it all. Its quite fucked up. But then at 14 they are old enough to have conversations and a friendly relationship with the parents friends so then it gets awkward. I dont think its a big deal. I think its not a good idea but if he truly has been talking with her then thats what it is and he's just somewhat of a doofus.
What a thought provoking question.
My immediate thought is, yes of course you should be concerned, but after reading the insightful reply from @TheorionMage I am now perplexed as to how to advise you.
Yeah that's definitely fishy. It's not good to encourage a 14 yr old to wear such skimpy clothing by liking it and that the girl's father is ok with this.
If I was her parent I would definitely have a problem with that. He’d be seeing momma bear. I wouldn’t want to be with anyone doing the same either.
I don't know. I am red flagging all over my brain to this question.
So, if he just looked at them, but didn't 'like' them, then everything's cool right? 🙄
Looks like you need a good husband who is not a pedophile. I am ready for marriage.
Yes as someone who has been in a similar situation this is a red flag 🚩
No I don’t think so, I have lots of younger family friends and I like their posts.
I like people on instagram that I am not attracted to because they are friends or relatives, it is not that if one likes others he is automatically sexually attracted to them.
First of all, why is he even connected to a 14-year-old on Instagram?
about this specifically? no. about a man having an instagram at all? yes
Most people just like posts just because don’t take it too seriously
As long as he is not being a pervert
Well. That is definitely weird…
is your boyfriend @ballsack
No.
Aoc is a joke.
Why is he still your boyfriend?
What do you think of this now?
He's boosting her clout
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