Why? Am I not enough?
My boyfriend follows girls on instagram?
Why? Am I not enough?
Because you allow it and never screened him out BEFORE making him your boyfriend. If you want respect, you have to command respect with your actions, and not always with just words. Not just give respect, and expect that much in return if he has never shown to invest in you. The fact that you have to say 'since we've been dating' shows lack of respect for yourself on your part. I see that you can bet I will hold him accountable. And if he doesn't like it, bye-bye. It says your just entertainment. Real men respect women not look at other women.
honestly just remind yourself that he wouldn’t be with you if you weren’t enough for him. a follow on social media isn’t equal to a relationship. it isn’t an act of disloyalty. if he dms them and constantly interacts with their profiles, that would be disloyal. a simple follow shouldn’t be a reason to make you this insecure.
You don't need to worry about it. I follow a lot of girls on Instagram as well. It's completely innocent. Guys like looking at beautiful women. I like looking at beautiful women. But at the end of the day there's really only one girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. Lots of girls are pretty, but it takes more than just being pretty to love someone. I'm sure your boyfriend feels the same way.
Is he hooking up with them? If not, they're just eye candy. He's probably jerking off to some pics right now XD
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He’s infatuated and because he’s not pleased with the person he’s with then he’ll find that pleasure by interacting with other girls online. Talk to him about it and see what’s on his mind and I know someone is going to bring that “insecure” talk.
Talk to him.
Most guys do it. I really feel for women who get hurt by it, I did too, which is why my man just up and stopped. Have you told him it makes you uncomfortable?
I told him that but he says I’m worrying too much, but like he follows 3-4 girls per day...
That’s sleazy. The fact that he doesn’t care about your feelings is worrisome.
It's normal. Nothing you'd need to worry about. Even my boyfriend did. It's just following on social medias. Not a big deal.
Most guys do it. I know, makes you feel insecure, and even I have that feeling. But it’s normal for guys to do it.
If he’s just following them it shouldn’t be a problem. Maybe he gets along better with females
But does he just follow them or also talk to them? What's he saying about this?
Because he is a man and a man like to looking girls specialy hot ones :d
Someone I dated did that and it later turned out that he hasn’t been too faithful a few times. Dump!
He can follow whoever he wants.
Do you follow guys?
Since I’m with him nope.
Not a SINGLE dude...
No? Why would I, I’m already dating someone. If I want to keep following other dudes I prefer to stay single and not bother my partner
Well then damn you’re one of a kind.
That being said may I suggest talking to him.
Tell him that a relationship is a two way street and if he cannot respect the fact that you unfollowed all the other guys out of respect for him but HE cannot do the same for you says a lot.
Make your decision on how to proceed after doing so carefully and best of luck
Yeah, and?
What wrong in it
I mean, if he’s taking why he keeps looking at them? Like, for that he’d be better single like he was before
Nothing bad in it in my opinion
Too many girls follow guys
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