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I was suspecting my long distance boyfriend having affair with Yannie who he also met online. He told me they are only friends but I was wondering why he cares about the problems in her life. He tried to justify it that he is just compassion person but he rarely cared about mine (emotionally unavailable) and do not even anymore sends gifts even if I do. I also caught him sending a flower to this girl after 3 months of our relationship. And, also sent her family foods two months because he said they are poor. He said he only send it as a friend gify because she was depressed. He insist me to look a job for this and he got mad when I didn't.

I got so mad of the girl to the point I told her that he was stealing my boyfriend and to stay away from my boyfriend. The girl blocked him but then my boyfriend got so mad that I destroyed their friendship. He told me they are just strictly friend and the girl has a girlfriend cuz she is lesbian.

If she is lesbian why does she need to vent to my boyfriend and why my boyfriend cares a lot.

Am I being jealous or my instinct is right they have affair?

This is about the recent ex I found out had a girlfriend the duration of our relationship and gave me an STI. I’ve been going to therapy trying to heal, he called me some hurtful things like a hoe and said I meant nothing so I left him alone after expressing how i felt. That was almost a month ago, now he started blowing my phone up telling me to pick up. I was annoyed and finally answered asking what did he want and he began accusing me of telling people about us and bothering him and his girlfriend.

I haven’t done anything and I saw the girlfriend followed me which I found weird so I told him no one is bothering your relationship and since I meant nothing why does my words matter. He told me well if you not then ok just leave me and my girlfriend alone. He said I liked and unliked and kept following and unfollowing her and told people we were exes. I just laughed but now I’m concerned on who is talking about me, and why the girlfriend is stalking/lying on me. I told him if he’s happy I’m happy since after finding out he cheated on her with me and gave an STI she’s still with him I didn’t care. I just want to understand why now…