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My boyfriend does almost no housework. We both work full-time and tired. For more than a year now, every day after work, I make all the effort to cook, do dishes, laundry. On the weekend, I also am the only one that does cleaning for the house. I have to admit that it is very tiring and stressful. I had talks with him and told him he needs to start doing something. He improves for maybe a week and it goes back to normal. When I tell him to do something, he would procrastinate until it's too late. For example, "Oh, it's almost 10pm it's too late to cook, I will order take out. Problem is, we really shouldn't be spending at this time. Most of my friends and family told me that it's so obvious he is taking me for granted. I can see it too and I am really fed up.

Couple days ago I burst out at him. I told him straight up that I am very stressed because I keep on picking up his slack. I also told him that he is taking me for granted. It is not my responsibility and I am not his mother. He understood and he felt bad. He said he doesn't mean to and he's never good at housework. I told him that I get that sometimes men aren't the best but you have to do your part. I told him if he does even a quarter of what I do, I would be very happy. I made up a schedule for housework. I told him if he skips something then he needs to do extra work the next day. If he skips twice, then I will only cook for myself. He said he will try but no promises. His attitude is just like, "well, I will try to do them but if I end up not doing my part, oh well!" He's not really making the best effort to help me out here :(

Right now, there are a lot of garbage and the dishes aren't done. It's his task today to do those things. I told him to please clear that up, it's already 12am here and he's still playing video games. After all this, there's still not much improvement. Should I give him more time? Or put more pressure on him like if you don't pick up your slack, I'm gone that type of a deal?

I thought of breaking up with my boyfriend because it seems like his video games are important to him more than me. All he care about is his YouTube channel and fans or anything related to that. I got that video games are his passion and all but i need him too, i really love him and i don't want to end it that way. He didn't realize that i'm pregnant until he saw himself and freaked out about it! I'm not saying that we don't see each other at all but still he should stop it for a while. I don't have the power to handle him and the baby at once.
he is a little older than me and work part time job and i'm still student in college and i'm 19 years old. He's caring and loving but i hate it when he play video games..