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Long story short: he started this. It's ridiculous because we broke up a whole year ago nearly. He went in a huff and wouldn't speak to me for months.

Recently, we did get talking. Our chatting turned into mild flirting, which then turned into more sexual flirting. Which turned into photos being exchanged and a rather sexual hug.

Now, I asked him at this point if he was flirting with anyone else, because, obviously, if he was... I didn't want to be flirting with him in any manner. He got angry and insisted no.

So yeah, time went on, we had a little misunderstanding and the flirting stopped and we agreed on being friends.

My birthday just passed and he wished me a nice day. Just round about this time, I'd found what looked like evidence he had indeed been flirting with another girl around about the time we had been getting close again. His birthday approached, I wished him happy birthday, but let him know I hadn't felt like it. This of course set off another argument.

He ended up telling me he didn't want to talk again and was raging with me. He told me I was vindictive and nasty. But then he'd change his mind and say I was nice, that he'd always care (that was after he said he didn't care) and then he said he could be nice to me after saying all he said.

I explained why id acted up and told him I knew about the flirting. He didn't deny it, although he said he couldn't remember flirting with anyone else when we were and told me he was considering giving us a second chance at that point. He stopped arguing at this point, he apologised... and we then hugged and left each other.

I honestly don't even know what to believe to honest. Help? What does he want?