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Been with my boyfriend almost 6 years. We currently don't live together but I stay there a couple nights a week. We broke up 3 weeks ago due to his lack of effort in the relationship. He doesn't like to go anywhere or do anything like go out for dinner or go for short drives or anything that a couple could do together on the weekends. However I didn't want to give up on him because I love him and understand that most days he's tired from work and was hoping he would start to make more of an effort. So we recently just agreed that we would give it another go, so the next day we agreed that I would stay over. So I message him and he says come over to stay the night but when I got there he was asleep on the couch. I wake him up and ask him if he still wants me to stay and he says yes, so I ask well is the bed clean and made and are you coming to bed? and he just gets angry with me and doesn't want to move. He said that his room and bed need to be cleaned first and he can't be bothered doing it. So I offered to clean his room because this is the second night that he has done this. Anyway so I clean the room and bed and he still doesn't want to come to bed. I asked him why did he even bother inviting me over if he was just gunna be rude and inconsiderate like this and he didn't even give an answer he just grunted and moaned like a child. Why would he do this knowing we have just gotten back together and him being like this would make things worse not better? Surely when you're trying to work things out with someone you claim to care about you'd be more accomodating when they came over right? Am I overreacting?