I felt it best to put this in myTake form instead of question because the story has details that folks need to know in order to understand what may be going on. So buckle up.
This Sunday we were spending a late Valentine's together because I had to work on Valentine, but it really ended up being a short visit. She was texting one of her guy friends for pretty much most of the time, I kept peeking at her phone over her shoulder. She said little to me. She also had a necklace in her car that I asked where she got it from and she sheepishly said she "didn't know."
Later on at the mall she wanted a watch and offered to pay half for it if I put in half. I asked her where she got money from because she'd been struggling to pay bills that week and I'd been helping her out with my own money. She wouldn't tell me. She claims I and another guy friend of hers are the only men who ever help her out but I wondered where this new money came from.
Then later we were driving on the freeway and she was reading another guy's message and the look on her face seemed different. I saw she was going back to my area and I asked where she was going and she said "Taking you home." She claimed she was tired. I told her I'd call her when she got home and she said "Yeah okay." Gave her half an hour to get home and I called but she didn't answer. I called her again a little bit later and she still didn't answer.
Then I texted her saying I wanted to hear her voice cuz we hadn't said much when we were out, and that I didn't mean to make her angry asking about the necklace and the money. She read my text but still said nothing. Then I asked her if she liked the big bouquet of flowers I got her and she still said nothing. I've left her alone since, figured maybe I should give her some space.
But it's something about her face and wanting to cut our day short and take me home that gave me a terribly frightening wonder that maybe it was because this guy said something that made her want to go see him, and it kills me to think she would be sleeping with someone other than me.
So the next day at work - we knew we were both working that day - we saw each other. She made it a point to walk near my area to see me even though she was working on the other end of the building that day. Then later she brought something right over to my area and we looked at each other but said nothing. Moments later we even walked right past each other and I said nothing and neither did she, even though the look on her face was like she felt awkward. A few hours later I look on Facebook and see that she blocked me after she saw a post I put up that morning about a strong man getting the best. But oddly she didn't block me on WhatsApp and I've been silent on there, only checking in to see when she's online or put up any new statuses.
But what does everyone think? Am I being cheated on? I know she keeps in touch with guys on our job and even other men she knows elsewhere. She gets mad when I ask about them and adamantly claims to me that she isn't seeing any other guys, that she just talks to them as friends, but I don't know what to think. It hurts me that she wasn't paying much attention to me the day we were out and that she didn't say anything about the flowers.
I think ultimately it's killing her that she's acted badly and hates that I won't say anything to her, but she doesn't want to speak either because she's too proud. Or if she really is cheating it could be killing her that she knows I know it and she can't face me.
We're both working tomorrow and I don't know what to expect or what to do. Should I give in and speak to her? Or keep letting the situation bother her until she decides to speaks? What could be going on? It has bothered me so much that I've hardly eaten in the last few days and sleep poorly as well.