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I think it makes sense that guys would stop approaching/ flirting with girls with the way they are... If you keep trying something and getting grilled every single time... You eventually jus give up and think "fuck it, what's the point"
We get called creeps or pervs, or jus down right disrespected every time, unless we're 10/10 chads with perfect personality and 10/10 game,

So we jus gave upBut then at the same time I was watching a video from a girl the other day about how "men are weak" if they're too scared to approach, or that were feminine and not masculine if we're "Afraid of rejection." And woman should not have to do the approaching, I don't think it's that we're afraid of it.. it's that were almost guaranteed it... And if we can avoid a negative feeling.. we will... If the chances of success was 5/10 I think guys would approach more.. but since it isn't, I can't blame guys for not bothering to approach anymore

my father was a Radio Baby aka from the generation that came before the Baby Boomers so he was kind of a raging homophobic. for example back in my puberty days he did not like me using acne products because he believed that only women wash their faces and maintain high ass hygenes.

however he had a totally different approach when it came to music. this guys used to love listening to Nina Simone, Nancy Sinatra, Peggy Lee, Billie Holiday and many other female singers from his era and later on in life I met a lot of men from his generation that had the same approach to music sang by women. they clamed that...

• nothing turned them on more than hearing a "honey" sing
• they did not care who was singing just as long as that singer was good
• that the singer reminded them of their first S/O
• that listening to women singing inspired them to be better lovers

and many other positive feedback. so it always made me wonder where that myth came from that men who listen to girly music are secretly hiding in the closet when men from older generations who were obviously more masculine than us used to enjoy listening to women singing.