Do a lot of women actually hate being approached by men or do they hate being approached by ugly/unattractive guys?

[Anonymous]

I hear all the time how women don’t like to be approached or how much they are tired of men in their face. I don’t know Id say I’m above average and I feel like I don’t approach as many women as I should. I’ve had good looking/handsome friends who never really approached girls and they’d get them easily. It’s like when I hear a lot of women complaining about the guys approaching them it was because he was unattractive.

[KoolKidKv93]

I jus don't think they want men in general anymore, cos whenever I approach a girl they reject and insult me every time, even tho I've been told I'm handsome... And then when I don't approach and don't do anything... Girls don't come to me either... So I think they jus prefer being alone right now... Maybe some decades in the future when they get tired of it maybe they will like us to approach again

[KoolKidKv93]

I think it's jus cos all girls are taken and already have boyfriends

[Asker]

From my experience women go after men they want or at least make it easier. I’ve seen multiple guys try to go after 1 girl and fail just for her to approach the guy she’s really into

[KoolKidKv93]

Hmmm

[KoolKidKv93]

I must jus not be as handsome as my mum told me. I'm probably not the type that woman want. They want big strong macho man I think so I understand them not wanting a skinny boy

[Anonymous]

Women obviously don't approach men. They expect men to do that. But they only want men they find attractive to approach them. Problem is, a guy doesn't know whether he is that guy unless he tries.

Women constantly put most men in an impossible position.

[chulo1992]

I hear some women do and some don't.
Me personally, I have never cold approached women and I really don't believe in it but I have had countless amounts of women throughout my years. For me, receiving choosing signals from women always worked for me.

[Asker]

How can you read “choosing signals” sometimes women just get a thrill out of leading a guy on or throwing mixed signals then saying the guy miss read

[In_Trance]

they hate the ugly/unattractive guys.
now there is a fine line; a good looking guy is instantly a creep if he says or does the wrong thing

[KoolKidKv93]

A man to that brother, good looks don't guarantee success

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/PxuUkYiaUc8

[Avicenna]

IF they’re regularly approached by guys they don’t find attractive and classy, they’re going to be negative about it. If it’s rare or relatively rare and the guy is decent, they’ll like it.

[MountAverage]

As long as it's not happening in an inappropriate way or in an inappropriate situation/setting, most women are fine with it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Right or wrong, people will always believe a female over a male, which makes women very dangerous. Even having the truth on your side will not save a man. So, approaching a woman has a serious element of risk for a man far beyond just being rejected.

[UniquelyBasic]

I think theirs a time and place where they expect to be hit on and other times not so much.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes they look like they wanna rob us