How hateful are woman towards unattractive guys?

[Anonymous]

I'm an unattractive guy but I secretly hate most people in general... I'm just a very bitter, resentful, type

I've noticed that almost every female neighbor/classmate's I've had always tried to stir up some bullshit drama or had a very strong dislike towards me from the get go

I never talked to anybody for this to happen... it all just comes to me

[Anonymous]

I'm mostly neutral. I used to be overly nice to them because I felt very comfortable around them but that led to them assuming I liked them or whatever so I stopped that.

[Asker]

So how I come into place?

Where specifically I don't care about making a "positive impression" on anybody really

I do what I want, how I want, when I want

& I dress sloppily & really don't care about what's going on in the world

[Opinion Owner]

Well dressing sloppy doesn't necessarily make someone unattractive in my opinion. It can dimish it but it's not like they suddenly become unsightly.

The I don't care attitude is usually attractive to me as long as he's not rude of course.

[scott04sa22]

Hey you’re not alone I have similar problems with my looks too

[NatalieKeller95]

are you on the autism spectrum?

[Asker]

No

I'm very self aware of myself & my surroundings

I'm bitter because I happen to attract bad luck into my life

Don't know why but I can list many incidents

[NatalieKeller95]

well what are the things that you do that causes the bad luck to happen, like how is your thought process and all, our thoughts greatly influence our actions, so try taking a look at it, and figure out how it got to be so bad in the first place, it's never to late to fix things in life

[Asker]

*being unattractive & literally having the majority of your new neighbors/classmates try to stir up some kind of drama by provoking you

It accumulated even more when I was "quiet"

*Because I don't need a reason to be extroverted... when I'm very disliked for petty reasons... many people think I'm "slow" which leads to provocation & I HAVE to defend my "honor" which leads to many petty verbal & physical altercations

*The opposite sex assume I'm meek, weak, soft because I'm unattractive & soft spoken... which again leads to petty altercations

I never understood why the opposite sex always had a problem with me in particular compared to every other guy from the get go

I'm not physically imposing, tall, or carry a "suave" vibe

But neither are a lot of average joes... so why target me?