Do women hate it when men don't approach and talk to them?

Question

In today's modern generation, we have the Meto movement which is why men don't want to be labeled as a creep for approaching a woman. They say men are supposed to wait for the signs like if a woman gives him eye contact with a smile on her face but a woman shouldn't always have to be some grand prize. A man is not obligated to acknowledge her flirty behavior.

Women will get mad because they're not use to getting rejected. We live in a double standard society, like a female gym member secretly records on TikTok to see if a guy is checking her out, she gets frustrated that she's not notice but secretly recording is a setup.

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This is a poll

A.) Yes women hate when men don't approach them

B.) No women don't hate when men don't approach them

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Your details cover good points. And yes, women do hate it when we are not paying them any mind or approaching. Reason being that getting attention is such an incredibly major unhealthy focus for a lot of women in today's world. Combine this with their obsession with social media and it gets even worse.

Women are much more interested in getting attention, being glorified and worshipped than seriously being approached or spoken to by a guy. They want to be noticed and desired, but then also want to try to depict the guy as bad for noticing or desiring them. Or once they get the attention they wanted, they get bored with you. Women also like exploiting even negative attention. They just like talking about some guy who is into them even if she's not into him back, or even if he really isn't into her she still wants to tell people a twisted story that he is.

This is why I say women today are a lot emptier than men, and why they struggle to find their own inner happiness and purpose. They're constantly looking for a dopamine high of getting attention whether it's on social media or in real life but ultimately never being fulfilled. You got people out there who will forever try to explain it away as these women never having a good relationship with their dads (constant dad blame) instead of it being about the real problem that these women are immature and need to grow and do inner work.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Some do and some don’t , I guess it depends on what she wants , the same thing happens to us guys’ as well , there are times I don’t want to be approached by girls’ and there are times I do , just depends on my current situation or what I am looking for , We don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads saying what we are in the mood for , or what are relationship status is , so all we can do is take a shot or not , if someone catches your eye go for it , if they are interested in you , then they won’t hesitate to talk back , if they aren’t interested, they will shrug you off as soon as possible , just be respectful , if they don’t want to be respectful to you , just walk the other way , My thing is it’s better to take the chance than no chance at all, I rather have an answer than no answer at all , especially when I see a beautiful girl that catches my eye , I am not really a shy person , but if you are shy , you are pretty much shit out of luck and you will never know

Noredcarpet · Accepted Answer

I think the meetoo movement was at first design to get the creeps, but unfortantely what always happens with every movement is that it gets out of control, get used, abused, misread. The more people that jump into it the more it gets like this. Why important to look at each individual/case to see if it holds up. The gym girl had no right to secretely film another innocent guy. Im happy he didn't respond the way she expected him to. The irony of the movement is that everyone else gets it except the creeps, sort of the same when critique is given to a whole bunch of people, lets say at work, but everyone knows it could apply to one or two people in the room, but they are the only ones sitting there, not getting it, go whaat? at best. I think we can all get stupid when we're ruled by hate, we don't think as well then, but it is important to not look at things from a group perspective but an individual setting at times. I never mind except for the fact I struggle with shyness all my life if a guy approach me in a nice way, it is how it is done that matters.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

B.. I don't care if they do or they don't.. it's up to them if they want something or not lol.

Bitter_Sweet94 · Answer

Most women don’t “hate” it, they just misread it.

A lot of women assume,

“He’s not interested.”

“He’s taken.”

“He’s shy.”

“He’s respectful.”

Not approaching isn’t usually seen as a bad thing.

What women actually dislike is when they’re interested but the guy never makes a move, so the moment passes.

But in general?,

Women don’t want to be swarmed.

They just appreciate a man who approaches with confidence, timing, and respect, not pressure.

Silence isn’t a turn off.

Bad energy is.

Summeroflove · Answer

Every woman is different there is some angry that men she doesn’t even know won’t approach her… and others that feel extremely uncomfortable. A lot of women are somewhere in the middle…

A woman (whose loyal) whose in a relationship for instance may not want a man approaching her but when she’s single she does. People aren’t mind readers… As long as he is respectful be respectful back. The other issue is that the men who are approaching a woman aren’t the type of men she wants to approach her.

RavVid · Answer

Women are hard work. They complain about both.

However female beauty is a 3 trillion $ industry so they put their money into it and that means they would probably want some recognition of it.

It may be as the T shirt says. Yes I do but not from you.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol, I just assume women don't want to be approached, especially a young woman by the age of 28. Unless you're tall and good looking, she don't want your nasty/broke "vibes" and that's how a female thinks, let's just be real. But to any woman or girl reading this. I strongly believe in God and heaven. If I don't get the type of wife I am looking for and die a good person. In heaven, i'll just ask God for my fantasy woman in heaven, and that's Pamela Anderson from her Baywatch days. I know realistically I won't ask or wait for such a thing on earth lol. But i'll ask that in the hereafter.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Depends completely on the woman and the man approaching her. You’ll either get…..

Church lady Karen screaming get away from me creep.
A polite smile or a no
Or a pole dancer with stars in her eyes.

Life is like a box of chocolates.

MJVillarama · Answer

Men are just more cautious now because no one wants to be labeled a creep. Attraction should be mutual, no one is obligated to approach or respond. The double standards make things messy. Learned this from  .

Tomislav7 · Answer

I don’t talk or approach women but it’s not like they want me to approach either. I feel like everyone is a 8/10 and I’m just a 1/10. I’m ugly, skinny, weak minded, have 0 confidence and low self esteem I have no personality and am as boring as watching paint dry I’m broke with no money to my name and can’t keep a job. I’m just waiting to die already and I’m not sure what’s taking God so long

Nikki1989 · Answer

It would be better if most men don't approach. You are doing us a favor. You obviously have delusions of adequacy.

JohnKebab · Answer

Women do hate it when men don't approach them. Because women like to feel in-control and have power over the mans emotions, like it gives her the power to play with his heart with rejection or denial. Women just love to hurt men, it's a natural urge that women every now and then must satisfy.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

I think it varies by person.. me and my friends like the boldness. But I’ve heard other women say they view it in a different way.. I don't know it’s confusing to me lol. Relationships today don’t make sense to me.

HighValue · Answer

Yes, they hate it. There are plenty of compilation videos on YouTube of women posting on their c=social media how upset they are because guys don't approach them or ask them out anymore, especially women in their mid 30s and later.

Kelley1 · Answer

Women love it when attractive men approach. They hate it when unattractive men approach.

itsannalee · Answer

Nope, I would appreciate it. I hate when strangers try to talk to me.

beenherebefore · Answer

OMG I love when guys don’t look at me and don’t try to talk to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Another whining man, angry that other men are able to form loving relationships with women but he isn't, so he blames all the women instead of looking at himself...

Ninania · Answer

I don't want to be approached by strangers, especially strange men.

snermcger · Answer

A woman would complain if you built her a solid gold house. It's just something they excel at.  Get used to it, it's hard wired in em all.

melssvdv · Answer

Feminism and mainstream media. Resentful of masculinity maybe.

RxR0954 · Answer

I would actually be glad when men don’t approach me

aquamarine321 · Answer

I don’t know if it’s they’re 100% honest but I hear females say they prefer not to be approached, and I wish dudes would listen and avoid them and find other nation or race

Anonymous · Answer

How many accounts does this make for you now?

Anonymous · Answer

We like it when the right guy approaches us.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm too shy to approach.  That's why I hate patriarchy, because it's teaching women that men should approach first.

Carina0 · Answer

Some of them are incredibly coward yes it's annoying.

Anonymous · Answer

Truthfully? Yeah. They'll deny it all day long. But that's before and after doing all they can to get you to notice them.😆

Shy_Steve · Answer

I think most of us don't like to be approached that's the problem.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Yeah, but lasses, stop acting like every lad who speaks to you is a potential r*pist !!!

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like its the women's motto that every guy is guilty until proven innocent.

blackeagle007 · Answer

We need laws that ban Me Too

Raydergman26 · Answer

Do to some men are shy

Anonymous · Answer

well it won't make a difference

Deereeeee · Answer

I don't mind it

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