If Women don't want Men talking to them, how are we supposed to approach them?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve never been approached by a woman. The only female friends I’ve had is when I meet women through guy friends.

I try dating apps but I don’t meet whatever attractiveness threshold to get likes or matches.

If I want to date the only option I’d have left is to try talking to women in person. But since women don’t want men to speak to them, I have to avoid and not talk to women I don’t know. But then if I don’t know women, I can’t date. So now I’m back to square one. It’s like a catch 22.

So what options do I have?

[ManOnFire]

Young women - from their teens into their 20s - behave the way you describe more than actual women. Ya know, mature adult women. Young women act that way because they want guys to feel like they're doing something wrong just for talking to them, even if the guy hasn't done anything wrong or inappropriate.

These girls behave this way simply because they can, or want to. They pick and choose which guys they're going to see as "creeps" that they will feel offended by. And they do this because they know that if they go running to people telling them what a creep some guy is - even if that's not true - that most people will be dumb enough to believe her because she's a girl saying she's threatened by a guy.

What you detail is exactly the reason why a lot of young guys nowadays don't really talk to girls anymore, and then you have the girls whining about why no guys ever approach them, completely ignoring the fact that they wanted guys to feel like they're doing something wrong for talking to them in the first place. They intentionally created that friction and tension, and then complain about it. They can't have their cake and eat it too.

[Lliam]

Who said that women don't want men talking to them? It depends on how you do it.

[mandyfire98]

This ☝️

[Asker]

No it depends on how "attractive" the women thinks you are.. if you're a average looking guy like me, most women seem like talking to them is a burden or I always feel like im holding then up

[Anonymous]

we don't want creeps and losers to approach us. only real men get to approach us

[Asker]

I don't consider myself a creepy st all. I'm actually really funny once you get to know me, I'm down to earth, humble, easy to talk too.. tbh it's just my self confidence that has always held me back

[Opinion Owner]

you don't get to decide whether you're a creep or not. only we do

[Asker]

Lol and that right there sums it up that women are just unapproachable