however he had a totally different approach when it came to music. this guys used to love listening to Nina Simone, Nancy Sinatra, Peggy Lee, Billie Holiday and many other female singers from his era and later on in life I met a lot of men from his generation that had the same approach to music sang by women. they clamed that...
- nothing turned them on more than hearing a "honey" sing
- they did not care who was singing just as long as that singer was good
- that the singer reminded them of their first S/O
- that listening to women singing inspired them to be better lovers
and many other positive feedback. so it always made me wonder where that myth came from that men who listen to girly music are secretly hiding in the closet when men from older generations who were obviously more masculine than us used to enjoy listening to women singing.