Why do men not approach me?

[Anonymous]

Even during college I hardly had guys come up to me and talk to me let alone ask me out. What are the primary reasons an otherwise average girl wouldn’t get approached by men?

[_Maya_]

I think the biggest reason is when people don't look approachable. I see it all the time. It is hard to describe but sometimes someone just has a look about them. The thing is it is very hard for us to judge ourselves. We tend to think that we aren't the problem and something else is. It is hard to see how we come off to people around us. I am not saying this is 100% the problem here but it possibly could be. Not knowing you from a hole in the wall it is impossible for me to say for sure what the issue is. This is just something to think about and how people perceive you.

[integrale77]

They either think your not as average as you think or they think your way above average and probably in a relationship already or unattainable.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are intimidating. Almost nobody has approached and I have been told that I can be intimidating

[CriticalCatDad]

Men aren't approaching women as much as they used to because they know they what the worst case scenerio would be and that risk is too high

[mayurr]

Whole system is against men.

[CriticalCatDad]

It absolutely is and I wish it weren't

[jeremy_09]

Is this yyyyu again?

[war_daddy]

because you are only average