What is a way a guy can compliment a woman’s bum and the way it feels without being disrespectful?

[Anonymous]

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If he doesn't have an existing intimate relationship with her he can't. Even if he does have such a relationship, he can't do it in public.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s mostly in his tone and if he’s feeling it when he says the compliment. If he knows she is receptive to hear it

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you gotten compliments?

[Asker]

That’s what happened lol. He’s a gentleman. The other day when we were hanging out, he had his hand around my waist and moved it to my butt. I tensed up and he knew it and respectfully pulled away and apologize but he still admitted to how nice it felt in the little moment he had when touching it.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya that makes sense. He expressed how it felt even if it didn’t last. Did you move his hand back to it after?

[Asker]

Lol no I didn’t. We just continued causally walking, talking and flirting. He mentioned it again late on in a message after we left each other but it was pretty much the same thing he had said when he did it.

[BarryLiverstone]

Well next time he touches it and tries to pull away just take his hand and put it back. Smile and tell him it’s ok for that to happen.

[Asker]

I’ll try that. I’m an over-thinker, so I focus so much on if I’m misting red flags or not even if there really aren’t any red flags at all. I just search for them but I know it stems from a past relationship that I’ve grown and healed from extremely but actually dating again is the test to see what parts of me still need healing.

[BarryLiverstone]

I see. So he’s like a rebound

[Asker]

Nah, my last relationship ended a year ago. We don’t even communicate.

[BarryLiverstone]

Right that’s an ex. Best not to communicate anymore

[itsclearlynicholas]

The same way a sensible man with manners and politeness and consent. Flirting. Consensual flirting 🫦🙂

[Anonymous]

I imagine it's contextual. If a lover with whom she is trying to grow a relationship shows interest in her bum, that would be quite different to her boss.

[Nikki1989]

Impossible.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Jokes, or indirectness

[AnAmazingGuy]

i can tell after looking at it