How to compliment a woman who isn't curvy?

[Anonymous]

I came across an article about these men who were saying how much they love their wifes curves. It was so nice and sweet to hear them talking about how beautiful and sexy they found them and why they love every inch of them. As nice as it was it made me sad my husband hasn't ever been able to really compliment my body or tell my why he likes something about me. I'm pretty sure it's because I don't have anything for him to hold onto or look at. my measurements are like 32-30-32 and I'm pretty flat all around. A cups, no defined waist, hip dips, flat butt *I know, gross🤢🤮*

Is there anything he can say that will make a boyish looking thing like me compare to those curvy queens?

[summiter]

Of course... he can just say that you are hot! it does not all have to be about curves. How is your sex life with him? If he is attracted to your body he will want frequent sex... is that happening?

[Asker]

I don't want to hear "you're hot" because he can't think of anything else to say to me. He wants sex a good amount but there's not much he can do with me because I'm not curvy

[summiter]

There is plenty to do with a non curvy girl. I actually prefer smaller breasts. As you know it is sometimes difficult for a guy to express their feelings. Let him know that you would like some encouragement at times. How is your sex life with him? Just try to be honest with each other and do not be afraid to talk about anything.

[Asker]

If there's plenty for a man to do with a woman with my figure then please enlighten me because I've seen the disappointment on plenty of men's faces when they saw me with my clothes off. My husband wants sex like every other dude so I guess that means our sex life is okay

[loveslongnails]

" there's not much he can do with me because I'm not curvy" - If THAT'S what you think, you've got the wrong boyfriend AND you've got some low self-esteem to boot. There's plenty of things I could do with any thin girl that would satisfy both of us!!

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[Asker]

@loveslongnails if I'm wrong please enlighten me because I'd like to enjoy sex like those girls in the videos he gets off too

[summiter]

@loveslongnails I agree... he needs some work

[summiter]

What about some great oral sex from him? You deserve some great orgasms also! I don't think he appreciates you for who you are.

[Guy13]

Don't be so hard on yourself but I get a little positive feedback would go a long way...

[Asker]

Yeah. It would be nice to know I could compare just a little bit. Not hear "I don't know" when I ask him how I can be just as pretty as my friends

[Guy13]

Damn, you're sweet. I hope he wakes up. Perhaps, dress up around the house. Maybe he forgot?

[Asker]

Dressing up around the house seems pretty silly if he's not taking me anywhere. Not that he would anyway... What did he forget?

[Guy13]

Forgot what you looked like dolled up. Might get you laid and complemented !!!

[Asker]

Lol the most I'll get is a "What are you dressed up for? Where are you going? Who's watching the kids?" Before he gets to the "You look nice."

[Guy13]

That's good enough. Get him in the bedroom in BJ position... What was the last thing you said to me? Flowers the NEXT day !!

[Asker]

As lovely as that sounds I can do that and more and I'm not going to be receiving any flowers. I'll still do that for him though. Christmas is coming and he works hard

[Guy13]

Damn, he does not realize...

[Anonymous]

Flat butt? Like how flat is it? Also A cups aren't that unattractive lmao. The shape matters most

Anyway, you are overthinking it. But the waist thing is definitely true.

[Asker]

Well, it's never going to be a big round peach. It's square and flat. I'm a size 2

[BarryLiverstone]

He married you. Has he never given you compliments? Does he prefer bigger girls?

[Asker]

Yeah he has but never to the same degree that my friends SO's do (my friends are curvy ladies). He does prefer more robustly proportioned women but he wound up with me after getting me pregnant during a drunk night

[BarryLiverstone]

I see. So because he got you pregnant you feel like he isn’t attracted to you. Have you ever asked him how you could look better or has he said?

[Asker]

He said I could do squats and go get my hair and makeup done. That's all he can suggest when I ask how I can try to look sexy

[BarryLiverstone]

Doing squats must mean he feels your butt is too flat. Which I don’t understand because big butts are a turn off.. too much fat. Is he into huge butts?

[Asker]

he's not into huuuuuuge butts. He's always been an ass man but prefers nothing bigger than like say Beyoncé

[BarryLiverstone]

Just because that’s a preference doesn’t mean it’s a requirement. Is your butt really that small? I wonder if you are concerned he’s spending more time with porn than time seducing you his wife

[BarryLiverstone]

For example I prefer boobs over butts. However that doesn’t mean there is a certain size of breasts that are required

[Asker]

I'm definitely not breaking anybody neck when I walk by, thats for sure. I'm shaped like Miley Cyrus, Arianna Grande I believe

[Asker]

Plus, he's not always on porn. I'd say normal for a dude. Plus I don't shame anybody for watching porn unless it's a problem

[BarryLiverstone]

Those are attractive people. So you feel proud to look like them?

[Asker]

Dear God, no! Nothing about those women is attractive! Arianna licks donuts and dresses like a little girl. Miley... I'll never forget the tweaking incident at the vmas🤣🤣🤣🤣

[BarryLiverstone]

See how different people have dif ideas about attraction. Lol you are funny tho. What tweaking incident? Follow me and fill me in

[Asker]

Lol oh god that was supposed to say twerking lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Really?

[Teriyaki70]

I'm sure you have other qualities