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Search Results: second change
Is it normal to feel I'm in debt forever?
I'm fine here while my poor fiance's dreams of being the best surfer and continue soccer practice were cut short; a great athlete. He can't do too much heavy duty. He works part time and gets paid on disability too. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Giving Up On Freedom
You might be surprised, and a little disheartened, as I am, to look around the world in the early 21st century, and see it, well, giving up on freedom. There’s America, watching as the GOP destroys democracy. There, China...
msc545
Master Age: 39 Should I change school?
I started school more than a week ago and the teachers are good. But I have nothing in common with the students and I don’t enjoy talking to the peppar in my school. The school is very deserted and every day when I go to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does my ex keep reaching out?
My recent ex and I got in a fight a week and a half ago because he had a breakdown and said he needs time on his own. We dated for 6 months and spent every second together this summer. After our breakup we talked and he...
Anonymous
(30-35) How should you treat someone who strung you along?
I’ve accepted the uncomfortable truth about my first heartbreak. The “signs” I saw were clear but not something a person like me would have noticed at the time. I didn’t have enough relationship experience to realize what...
Anonymous
(25-29) What are three (or more) good things about yourself and three (or more) bad things about you?
Bringing up an old class experiment that I did before back in university. What are at least three of your positives and at least three of your negatives? You must list at least three. Second part: What is something...
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 What behaviour do you consider to make a romantic partner needy?
TLDR: My brain sucks and is making me feel too needy because I want to be around my partner all the time and we haven't spent significant time together in over a week. Help... Im 23F, partner is 26F, her fiance is 30MI am...
BaileyisDarcy
Editor Age: 28 Starring OCD someone give me a solution?
I have been recently having a major problem after this lockdown when all came back to normal i have tend to stare more at girls, i really wasn't concious while looking at thier parts and after a few seconds i change my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my guy best friend’s soon to be girlfriend acting like that?
My guy best friend who i love very dearly to my heart has met a girl online, I’ve only talked to her twice, once asking her if she was talking to him, he told me he told her to block me so there wasn’t any drama. Okay...
Anonymous
(30-35) Secret for Better Relationships: Being Consistently Inconsistent
When The New Car Smell Is Gone: Ever had a relationship that went into a rut? Where people started feeling like they don't have to try anymore? Where They became lazy and let things go? For some relationships it seems,...
Xylem1992
Xper 6 Age: 33 Even if you forgive someone wouldn't there still be triggers?
Lets say someone hurt you and even messed up part of your life. Years later, the person expresses remorse and through actions showed they've really changed. You forgave, they got their second chance and you're friends...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, she said she was confused and I told her to do what felt right. Was that the best thing for us?
So, I met this girl on Tinder. She texted me first, gave me a "super like". I'm 28 and she's 35. She's divorced and has been going out with guys for the last year. She said she wanted something casual, I told her I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, she said she was confused and I told her to do what was right. Was that the best thing for us?
So, I met this girl on Tinder. She texted me first, gave me a "super like". I'm 28 and she's 35. She's divorced and has been going out with guys for the last year. She said she wanted something casual, I told her I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do men only see me as a woman to be friends with benefits with?
Time and time again, with different excuses, men have always found a reason not to be in a relationship with me, hoping that I’ll shrug it off and allow them to have all the benefits of being in a relationship without...
Anonymous
(25-29) If Andy was a Republican, what would change, if anything. (If you don't understand the question, just move on)?
When the first woman came forward with claims of sexual assault, Andy got a pass. When the second woman came forward with claims of sexual assault, Andy got another pass. Now that 11 women have come forward with...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Beauty Standards.
Perspectives. People love pretty things. That is undeniable; It is encrypted in our DNA - - hint : lookism. But what really constitutes as "pretty" in our mind? Beauty standards. If you were born to fulfill them,...
rosesofsarahhhh
Xper 4 Age: 23 Will I still be able to heal from an abusive ex-girlfriend?
So what happened was, I broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me for the second time. I forgave her the first time because I wanted to change for her and I even swallowed my pride, but months later, she...
Anonymous
(25-29) America Is Cruel
Any theory of being American must explain one salient and striking fact: cruelty. America is the most cruel nation among its peers — even among most poor countries today. It is something like a new Rome. It has little, if...
msc545
Master Age: 39 Need advice? (Long rant ahead) ?
Been married for 8 years. When I married my husband he was active, social and we had lots of fun. But he changed along the way. Along the way he got meaner. He's been stressed out, works too much, practically 80 hours a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Toxic people - what goes through their head, said from a former toxic person
Toxic people - we often talk about them, how to avoid them, the kind of damage they do, but often we don't ask ourselves the question - what makes them act like that? What makes them do the horrible things they do? I...
