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My boyfriend knew this girl in year 12 and she moved back to her country. She messaged him 8 months into our relationship and since then (we've been together 1.5 years) they've had 6 facebook conversations. I said to him that I'm more important not someone who lives on the other side of the world, and cos i don't like that she's a girl, he shouldn't stay in contact with her. He said that they've always kept in contact since 2012, he said sometimes they wouldn't talk for months, then they'd talk for a week and so on, there's been no flirting and she was also friends with is ex. He says that he can't just neglect her because she's a female and she doesn't have bad intentions & its also nice to keep in contact. He said i can always read their messages if i like. I got very offended when she messaged him like twice within 10 days because in my mind i think "why does she think its ok to message MY boyfriend." their convos normally last 2-3 days as there is a 9 hour time difference so its not like they speak ALL day and eventually the convo ends. Do u think that someone can just be genuinely nice and want to stay in contact? maybe she thinks I'm nice and chilled so she doesn't think its a big deal to occasionally chat or catch up on life. He's only ever messaged her first TWICE in 1.5 years. Once it was about tennis which created a convo, then the second time he sent her an article about her country. So you do guys think its okay to keep in contact with someone over Facebook messenger and from time to time have a conversation with them