Search Results: long term crushes

Why would a guy pull back after messing around once?

First of all, I need to ask for no judgement here, please. I know my behavior has not been the best and I probably deserve what I'm getting. But I truly need help. I am married, but VERY unhappily. I'm staying in my...

anonamy

Xper 3 Age: 42

What does it mean if a guy messages you out of the blue?

I worked with this guy probably 3 years ago, we flirted a lot at work but never did anything sexual. I had a huge crush on him but later found out he had a long term girlfriend. He was always a gentlemen and never gave...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Long distance dating isn't my thing. Why do I do this?

So I matched with this girl on Facebook Dating, call her Jodie. We texted for a while before our first phone call, which was great and lasted almost two hours. I think we talked one more time since then, she doesn't even...

JHNS98

Explorer Age: 27

Why does his brother hit on me?

So I asked my crush out, he said no, is now chatting me up at every corner. I'm just gonna sit on that until he breaks lol Now, I directly work with his brother on a team and my crush works in a different department....

Sammie1996

Xper 6 Age: 30

Long term Guy friend described me as his type?

He said indirectly that I am: Super smart Successful Very ambitious Wacky sense of humour Can laugh at myself Not take myself too seriously He said that he has a crush on this person and that they're his type. These...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do you think Putin's invasion of Ukraine will make the "West" more or less fearful in the long term?

Before the invasion of Ukraine, Putin had been warning that he felt NATO expansion was going too far. Tankies are now saying that the "West" didn't head his warnings but by invading Ukraine he took everyone by surprise...

Ad_Quid_Orator

Guru Age: 36

Is it worth it dating someone you might not be compatible with?

I'm very much into this guy and it's the first time that it's probably reciprocated... He's funny, witty, sweet, charismatic; as I said, I'm very attracted to him and had a big crush on him for the longest time. But I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I'm very much into this guy and it's the first time that it's probably reciprocated... He's funny, witty, sweet, charismatic; as I said, I'm very attracted to him and had a big crush

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Break Up & Divorce

What is your take on falling in love with someone shortly after a breakup?

I’m curious to hear opinions on this. It seems like a lot of people believe that you need months to yourself after a breakup to heal or move on, but personally, I do not think that is true for everyone. Both my sister and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, why would she be that open towards me about her past love life?

My long-term crush meanwhile treats me like a friend, like in a friendzone... I guess. She flirted with me again once it seemed like she quit with her now ex. Anyways when I somehow asked her if there was some new guy,...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Should I ask my ex fling to go to his frat formal?

my guy friend/fling from last semester just told me he doesn’t see himself dating me long term, and it low key crushed me. He said there wasn’t anyone else, but he “just didn’t want to be that guy.” The thing is, he...

eugstka

Xper 3 Age: 24

Family & Friends

Anyone who had parents that never listened to you? Are you in talking terms?

Parents are supposed to guide children, spend genuine time, comfort them emotionally and help in their mental stimulation. Why the hell are they parents if they are not doing this but absorbed in their self...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I accidentally said I love you?

Basically me and my crush have been hanging out at his hotel for a couple days while he's i. Town. I stayed with him because he was close to my friends birthday party. We have been talking for months online. long story...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, What went wrong with my crush?

(already asked the girls this question, wondering what the guys have to say) There was this girl in my class who I really liked and had feelings for. During the two-week holiday break, she added me on Snapchat....

EpicNate

Xper 5 Age: 20

Girls, What went wrong with my crush?

There was this girl in my class who I really liked and had feelings for. During the two-week holiday break, she added me on Snapchat. The next school term I came back with a pair of sunglasses hoping to impress her....

EpicNate

Xper 5 Age: 20

Crush on colleague?

Hi all. I've known and worked with this lady for about five years, the last two basically in the same department. When we first got to know each other, we would talk about common interests, have a real good laugh and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

If men are so loyal to their wives while the man is unhappy?

Then why do so many men cheat? If what everyone on here says is true on my last question then how did mistresses come about? It’s not that I’m saying it’s ok to cheat but let’s be real men and women do cheat when they are...

Maroo9

Xper 1 Age: 40

Crush is a slow texter?

I'm always the one initiating conversations with this guy I like, and sometimes he replies within a few minutes to a couple hours. If he is online when I text he'll reply immediately. But sometimes he has taken 2 days to...

Anonymous

(25-29)