Search Results: taking it to the next level

Let's say you truly love your significant other, and you are sure he/she is someone you will be willing to spend the rest of your life with or even, you aren't sure yet but you are giving it a thought because they have all that you desire in "the one". What is one thing that matters that much to you, that might be the sole reason you won't end up being with this person, or something you both absolutely have to be on the same page on or have in commont to make that big commitment?

You can select more than one option with an opinion explaining your choice and why

I've been trying to use quarantine as a way of figuring out what I want to do after high school. I took the Myers-Briggs personality test and they told me I'm an INTJ so i looked into some of the careers that are ideal for that personality type. The ones that interested me had a con (s) that I don't want to deal with for the next 50 years. I understand that all jobs have cons but the cons that these jobs had were my dealbreakers. Some were monotonous, too stressful, too social, required a level of intelligence and work ethic i don't believe i have, some majors were too competitive and expensive, etc. I've thought about taking a gap year but i noticed that after summer breaks I end up losing some of my intelligence. There's no telling how much intelligence I'd lose in a year of no school.