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My friend group is big on us dating and marrying women that are our type. I am the only one in the group who doesn't really have a type. I'll date any race and skin color. It doesn't matter to me. My friends think I'm struggling to get into a long term relationship because I am "not focused" and "don't know my type". They'll sometimes corner me and hound me asking, "What's your type? What's your type?"

The longest relationship I've been in was for 2 years, but that was long-distance with a white girl I met online. My other 2 relationships have been short, like 2-3 months, and they were with lightskin black girls. So by their logic, I have 2 types, white and lightskin black. Whenever I go for a white girl, they think I'm copying another guy in the friend group because he likes white girls, but he wound up marrying a darkskin black woman. Then if I go for a lightskin black girl, they think she's ugly. If I go for a darkskin black girl, they say that I need to elevate my "level of blackness" to get with her. If I go for an Asian girl, they'll say Asian girls smell bad and throw out a racist Asian meme in our group text.

All of the other guys in the group are either in long-term relationships or married. 3 of them are married to darkskin black women, 1 of them is dating a darkskin black woman, and the other 1 is dating a lightskin black woman. I think these guys are just insecure. Clearly 1 didn't marry his type, I can't tell if he's happy or not. I think they just hate me for whatever reason.

Even the white girl I dated online said that her usual type is brown hair, white, tall, and conservative. I just saw on Facebook that she married a guy who matched her type 3 months ago. By looking through her profile, she seems happy and posts him or stories about him all the time.

Should I lock-in on my type which seems to be white and lightskin black? Or should I still date all races and ignore these guys? What has your experience been if you're married? Should type matter?

I still see black guys occasionally with black women. But I often see a lot of them with white girls too so it gets confusing which is more common and by how much.

But in any case black men have kinda built themselves a reputation over time for not being the most reliable dating partners given single motherhood rates but aside from that I’ve been noticing quite a few black women starting to date interracial lately. Its been trending a bit.

I don’t suspect most black women are necessarily open to it but things do seem to be moving in that direction.

From what I can tell a growing number of them just kinda are beginning to feel underappreciated by black men. And that is also what the statistics seem to prove given domestic violence rates as well.

And I kinda see it happening often myself. There’s been times where black men on this site like to just push aside, conveniently ignore and deny the proven statistics that black women are heavily discrimated against on dating sites.

I was at breakfast with sister and her friends. One girl randomly started talking about her dating life and how she was struggling to find dates because she’s fat. She didn’t say that to be the reason but we all know that’s a reason why. Anyway, one of her friends replied to her “just get a cute black or Hispanic guy then.” She said that as if these guys are entitled to her and it would be easy or something.