How to deal with racist friends?

So, I’m a light skin black girl and I honestly don’t have a racial preference when it comes to dating. But when I tell the girls at my majority black school I date white guys they start hating me. And then they give me rude looks etc. Like I have trauma with black men, I’ve been cheated on, sexually assaulted, bullied by black men my whole life. I do love my black kings. It’s just so hard to get over the trauma I’ve been through with them.
How to deal with racist friends?
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