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I did not make myself very clear when I asked the question, Adults, Do You Check Out Teenagers?

I was referring to underage teenagers, (not teenagers who are also of age.)

Here's an example: My friend has a young teenage girl (she just turned 13) that I sometimes will take shopping downtown. I have noticed that when we are out, a lot of men, and I am referring to men in their sixties and older, will be checking her out quite often.

Some are low-key about it, just taking a glance or so, and some are quite obvious, honking at her as we walk down the sidewalk.

She does not dress provocatively in any way, but she has such a gorgeous face and shapely legs that even though she tries to hide it all with the big hoodie she wears, it's still noticeable. The attention from the men that are old enough to be her grandfather has been causing her to feel self-conscious.

Though she has a somewhat mature looking physique, it's still clearly noticeable that she is a minor.

In the question I asked previously, I mentioned a friend of mine who is in his 60s, who checks out underage teen girls. When I go places with he and his wife, he's oftentimes checks out the girls that walk past him. You think he'd get dizzy with as many times he turns his head around. Ha! His wife doesn't have a problem with it. I asked her about it and she said as long as he doesn't do anything with them and "takes care of himself" when needed, it doesn't bother her.

It made me curious how many other wives think that way, so I started asking my other friends that are married. Out of the eight friends I have asked, only two (that includes the one I mentioned above) said they don't mind if their husband checks out young (underage) teen girls. (I think next I’ll ask the husbands the vise versa question & get their input). Read update section please. I cannot fit it all in this section.

Long ago when we were younger, my boyfriend once admitted he wanted to get me pregnant. He changed his mind when I said ''If you ever get me pregnant, I'm going to abort it, I never want kids ever''. On another day, I told him that I can trip on purpose and pretend it was a miscarriage. I was then 19/20.

Then from 2015-2019, I was suffering from low blood counts. If I had given birth by then, it would cause a massive internal bleeding and possible death.

We got back together years later in 2016. We've been in a long distance relationship since and I've remained childless at the age of 33. I had dreams that I would never have a child. If there is anyone I would've wanted if I had the power is switch back time and bear him a child, erase those horrible words. We would've been happily married and our would've been 13 years old by now. I can't and I feel this is my karma now. Is it?