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When I say “ younger” I mean legally younger of course. The whole male vs female sexual predator thing can be a different topic/poll.

On the surface I personally observed that it’s more “woke” and PC nowadays to trash on older men dating much younger women as creeps while propping older women who date young men as “free minded and attractive cougars”.

However I think most people quietly judge older women more harshly than older man. Reason being is that older men have been marrying much younger women all through human history (especially if they were political/powerful). Facetious as it sounds there was a time if an older man could land a much younger attractive woman it meant he REALLY had something going for him. He was looked at as very alpha/successful: It could be fame, money, looks, special talents, etc but something about him very attractive to females despite his age.

It’s also considered more natural from an evolutionary aspect that older woman might not be as attractive to younger men due to fertility issues. Most men don’t even consciously realize that they often judge attraction on the perceived fertility of the woman they really attractive.

Again people usually don’t go around saying that above publicly because it’s “sexist” and draw them feminist ire. However it’s the ugly truth.