Okay so, most people I’ve met find me attractive or say I’m pretty/cute. I recently started dating this guy who has a preference for older looking women. He says he finds me really attractive and hold qualities that’s part of his preference which is a compliment. Only thing is I am younger than him by two years and also look younger for my age.
But the thing is, his female friends wanted to see what I looked like, so he sent a photo of me and all they said was “I had nice hair”. The only bad thing they said was that I look younger than what my boyfriend usually goes for. I mean I’m okay with looking young, but I feel like they secretly find me ugly because all they said was “nice hair”. But his family thinks I’m attractive or really cute and were happy that he’s dating me.
I know I shouldn’t care but yeah I don’t know why I’m feeling like this. He reassures that his friends are as blunt as I am and like giving the honesty but I feel like they actually were not and just didn’t wanna hurt my feelings. What do you guys think?
But the thing is, his female friends wanted to see what I looked like, so he sent a photo of me and all they said was “I had nice hair”. The only bad thing they said was that I look younger than what my boyfriend usually goes for. I mean I’m okay with looking young, but I feel like they secretly find me ugly because all they said was “nice hair”. But his family thinks I’m attractive or really cute and were happy that he’s dating me.
I know I shouldn’t care but yeah I don’t know why I’m feeling like this. He reassures that his friends are as blunt as I am and like giving the honesty but I feel like they actually were not and just didn’t wanna hurt my feelings. What do you guys think?
