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There are two guys I know who are pretty good friends. The question is end up the most desirable and successful in life? So who is going to be doing better in 25 years if we can check on them again. I will describe them to you and you decide who will fare better in life. And make your choice and explain your belief.

Guy 1:
Guy 1 Is 25 years old and is recent college graduate. He met guy 2 while working a blue collar job to sustain himself and worked through college and graduated college with no debt, owns his own car lives in his own apartment. He now works at a decent tech company. He is a hard working person, learns quickly and moves with purpose and vision. He's a thin, fit guy who is very dedicated to fitness and loves to go to the gym. He's very young looking for his age, couldn't grow facial hair on a bet. He likes to read and likes to learn new things. He's got lots of interests and he's strong and smart. He has dated, and had a couple of relationships, moderate dating and he can fairly easily get a date, in fact women ask him out some times.

Guy 2:
Guy 2 is 24. He still works at the blue collar job, but he's trying to get a better job in the industry and he's about to get it. He, however, has not been to college in fact he did not even graduate high school. He dropped out because he got his girlfriend pregnant at 16 had had a baby with her. He has been already married and divorced. He lives paycheck to paycheck, barely sustaining himself in the trailer that he rents with his child. Though not educated guy 2 is good with numbers and is just good at math generally. He too, is a hard working guy and he tries to do the right things, but he has a child and it's harder. He's a good looking thin guy that doesn't care for the gym he gets enough exercise at work, but he's fairly confident. He doesn't date much, but he has had a fair share of brief hookups.

Pretty simply question, to which I sort of already sort of know the answer, but I'm more or less curious for people to elaborate in terms of the specifics as it relates to how they deal with height when in comes to online dating.

I'm a short guy, about 5'5 with shoes on. I'm a decent looking dude, and I've had a handful of girlfriends in my 30 or so years of life, but when it comes to online dating, I feel like my success is not at all in line with with the success I should be having in terms of my overall looks, career, profile quality, etc. It's especially interesting to use and pay for the apps like bumble and tinder that then allow you to directly see who finds you attractive. In my case, the only people liking my profile are people who I would consider to be 3/10 at best. when I know I'm at least a 7 and most of the girls I've dated have been around there as well. This has made me wonder if the reason for this is that in an online setting, people are simply filtering me out by height and the only people who are even seeing my profile are really unattractive people who are too desperate to even care who they are dating. They're just happy to get a date.

So if you're given the ability on the site, do you filter out height and where is your cut off if you do.

My DNA is crazy good I don't know how I got this lucky. I rarely get sick. I heal quickly. I'm pretty athletic. I went to the dental hygiene woan yesterday and I hadn't been to the dentist in like ten years. And I have no holes in my teeth!! I drink a lot of coke zero so I was worried a bit but everything is fine. Just the back of my front teeth at the top is a bit softened up I'll try and take care of that. This one guy I know has to go replace all his teeth in eastern Europe because they're rotten. I don't know exactly what he did but I just brushed my teeth normally and sometimes I even forgot that.

So I feel lucky. Also I'm tall and I look good and I don't gain weight my metabolism is crazy I don't know what is going on with that but I should be way heavier than I am I think. It's not that I don't like doing sports I do but even when I don't and eat a lot I don't get fat. Everybody told me ah when you get older that will change but it hasn't. I have noticed my belly can get slightly bigger than before but it's still nowhere near big.

The only thing where I got screwed was my mental and that's pretty impactful. If you have to fight your own mind constantly it's hard to get anywhere. But I hope I can still have a decent existence once I get through the mess I'm in right now.