Why do so many women think they'll never find a man or be in a relationship nowadays?

[Anonymous]

Seriously; we're living in the age of simps. If you have at least a half decent personality, a willingness to treat your man well, and you're a biological female, you should have men lining up around the block for you. I would add in you'd have to be straight and monogamous as well, but unfortunately even that's not required anymore. Even gay and polyamorous women will have men chasing after them, nowadays. (Some men are just pathetic like that.) Men don't even care about looks much. They just want actual women who'll be good to them.

No woman alive is single or lonely without choice. As in, every woman can easily get a decent, respectable boyfriend, if she actually wants one. There's no shortage of men like that out there. So why do so many of you claim you're single, lonely, unloved, can't find a guy to like you, etc?

[Anonymous]

It can be extremely discouraging when guy after guy comes along and you think 'this is amazing! I know he's the one!' and it never happens. It's even worse when a lot of these guys are not good guys/you're experience with men/relationships is fairly negative.

[Anonymous]

because guys are afraid to commit always, i don't even know how to freaking transform dating into a relationship, it seems as if every guy would run away as soon as he sees I want a relationship

[Asker]

Plenty of guys want a relationship. Only theory I could think of is that you move too fast for them and they aren't ready that soon to get engaged to someone.

[Opinion Owner]

i got to know someone who lives about 1h by plane in may, he liked me, i liked him back, we texted often, had very similar values etc. he came to my city, a month later i visited him, a few weeks later he visited me again, it was going great but the thing is he will move away for max. 1 year to the other end of the world in a few months, i read that sometimes it makes sense to text details if you live away from each other and i think i overdid it a bit, not super excessively, now 2 weeks after he was in me literally he doesn't even answer to text messages... at one point i thought he is my dream guy... tbh i am one of these girls thinking i will never find someone who likes me back or not screwing things up royally

[Hellraiser1984]

Um I'm a guy in the same situation. I'm always the other guy. Sick of being used

[ChiPaPa]

They reject the guys that are into them

[Anonymous]

Bc a lot of the men chasing me only want me for sex. And no I'm not just making that up. It's pretty obvious bc some of them literally offer to pay me to give them a hand job. Also I have trust issues and I feel uncomfortable around men (I don't have anything against them. It's just bc of some things that happened to me as a child). That or I'm just not attracted to them