Honest answers please. I mean those who can't talk to women, have little confidence with them etc.
- Yes, unless they changeVote A
- No, they'll still find someoneVote B
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The world is full of chance. You MAY find someone that looks past your insecurities, or has similar insecurities and finds them to be normal. You MAY also push away everyone that you have an interest in because they don't want to get involved with you and your emotional baggage.
So you can sit and hope that someone comes along that will put up with what you've got going on. But wouldn't you want to make your chances exponentially better? Not just for finding a girlfriend, but just living a happy and fulfilling life. I see a lot of people in the world who sit and let their own fears get the better of them, keeping them paralyzed with anxiety and regret with improvement rarely (if ever) happening for them.
Considering you DO have the power to stand up and put the work necessary in to make your life better, why would you not want to do that?1