First I thought some women reject me because they aren't attracted to me and that's why they don't even go out with me to give me a chance. But then a few years pass and they are still single. And it's not like they sleep around or have flings because I know they are shy and innocent religious women. Even if I'm not attracted to them enough, why don't they date anyone?
Probably because they already experienced a relationship that didn’t go well for them and they do not want to get their heart broken again once someone has their heart broken? they sometimes feel they can never truly love someone again , and they have a harder time trusting again. This happens To guys’ as well, that had their heart broken. I had my heart broken a few times by girls’ that I thought truly loved me , to find out they didn’t , So from that point on , I was happy staying single and focusing on myself , not wanting another relationship with a girl for quite sometime , having casual sex was fine with me , I started meeting girls’ that just wanted to be FWB’s or just wanted to have fun and have sex with barely any strings attached , I no longer allow myself to get into a serious relationship with a girl, until I really get to know her and feel she is really in it for the long haul as well. , and not the short haul , I have my preferences that I stick to now when it comes to girls’. My whole outlook on relationships changed after having my heart shit on a few times. I mainly have walls up protecting my heart now from lying backstabbing selfish girls’ Especially after my ex wife decided to betray me. i no longer look at love like I use to before I was cheated on and betrayed , I just treat people the way I want to be treated in return , I still love girls’ I just feel I am wiser when it comes to giving my heart to a girl and I pretty much know what I am seeking and who I will invest my time into, again I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , because most girls’ really don’t know what they want either , they mainly only want what is best for themselves and most girls’ think grass is greener on the other side. So I am mainly attracted to honesty , if a girl is honest with me , her chances of getting me in bed increases tremendously. Because I no longer care about her personal problems or issues , that’s her problem not mine. If she wants to lie to me , that’s her problem not mine. she will eventually encounter the consequences to her actions if she can’t be honest , all I can really worry about, is myself and my actions. I have slept with married women , I have slept with girls’ that were already in relationships that lied and a few that didn’t lie to me. Honestly I no longer care what her personal problems are , if she wants to run back to a guy she is cheating on , that’s her problem not mine. I am not a mind reader but when I meet a beautiful girl that has great chrome and connection with me , my intentions is to have fun with her and have a good time , if we end up playing Twister in bed , to me that’s a damn good time. My intentions is to see her more and more , if she doesn’t want to see me more or more , oh well we tried , basically
Thanks for a good time but not a long time
It’s because radical feminism keeps telling them that they are “strong and independent” for doing so. Also most young women are single by choice. All they have to do is say no and reject men.
That’s not to say any woman should be forced into a relationship. It’s necessary during certain life phases. But relying on the sugar high of virtual social media attention, “affirmation” from other single females, etc. or worse a feeling of “fighting patriarchy” is making lots of women miserable in the long run (and men are collateral damage but nobody seriously gives a shit about them). It’s as a shitty substitute for a real relationship and will make most women miserable in long run.
Funny just today I got in a conversation with a lady on a “traveling romance” dating app. The app is heavily moderated for OnlyFans bullshit. Anyway she claims she’s never left her home state before at 24 nor wants to. Also claims she just wants a “virtual” relationship.
I responded with f*ck no on the “virtual relationship” bs. Told her straight up I wanted to meet up someone in real life. Willing to make it an adventure to travel to.
So is very wrong with women who feel sugar high contentment with virtual attention. It’s seriously misanthropic and pure delusional fantasy. Most men don’t want that at all. We want something real.
i'm sick but if i get well i will also not settle just because i'm afraid to be alone. the thing is i am bot afraid to be alone. i have been in a relationship for many years before and so i know what its like. its not that i don't miss it in facr i'm a hopeless romantic type and looking for love but right now my focus is on my faith. my number one priority is my faith.
i want the world to know the reality of Jesus. and so it will have a domino effect on how the society behaves. for example stopping abortion, it is a sin against the Creator. also we shpuld treat pur neighbors equally. another thing is prostitution it must be stop. this gender pronouns also has to stop.
not that i'm scarinh anyone but motherly advise ( i am not a mother by the way i just have a motherly trait) i think it's better to be prepared. thankfully though i feel at peace there's no gut feel that something bad will happen in the future but also in the Bible the Master could return like a thief in the night.
i think there might be other Mystic pips out there who can help analyze what needs to be done. fyi the Divine Mercy Shrine i go to were built by mystic pips too. the people i am in contact with right now are highly rich influential people and so what does could that mean
could it be world preparation? a massive scope of evangelization?
everyone is called to do this. do your part.
I didn’t start dating until I was 25. The reasons I stayed single were just compounded;
1. I grew up with strong religious convictions that kept me out of the bars and clubs and away from most dating sites.
2. I went to college straight out of high school, but chose to live at home with my parents to keep costs down. I focused on academics and didn’t really develop an interest in extracurriculars, which kept me from meeting a lot of people.
3. I didn’t want to date anyone who didn’t share my religious beliefs. I also only dated with marriage in mind, and was very upfront about my desires for the future. I was not interested in wasting anyone’s time nor having my time wasted.
4. Those who I did date were just not the right people. They weren’t bad people, it’s just the relationships themselves were not good. If I stayed with them, I would have been settling. If they stayed with me, they would be settling. Nobody deserves to settle nor be settled for.
I stayed single because I wanted to find the man I would want to spend the rest of my life with. And I did. And now I can look forward to our marriage next year.
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u Most people don't remain single because they believe no one is good enough for them. A girl might meet a guy who she thinks is a great guy, but she isn't attracted to him. Or she may think he's wonderful but they come from different cultures and a LTR would be difficult. She may think he's a wonderful guy but too much of a risk taker. . . or not enough of a risk taker. . . or the wrong religion or political beliefs.
It's about finding a person who is a good match, and not just someone who is good.
Because the one they want don’t want them. Or they’ve been single way too long, they’re happier doing whatever they’re doing
To think you should be everyone’s cup of tea is bonkers and arrogant to boot!
I have strict parents which is the biggest reason I’ve only dated 2 people in my life.
I don’t want to date. I have bad experiences and don’t trust people. Especially not men to date. I’m content being single, it’s more peaceful and I don’t have to worry about someone cheating, lying, being emotionally abusive, emotionally abusive, breakups or whatever. I also basically never find someone attractive and interesting enough that I want to get to know them or be with them anyway. There’s a good chance I’ll be single for the rest of my life and if so I’m fine with that. Rather that than have to go through some bullshit or cry because of a guy ever again.
my guess is that they are just tired of the games and being used.
Or really just don't need to be in a relationship to feel whole.
Same with men.
I was single for a long time by choice.
I was tired of the games, being used, being not much more than a wallet.
I found that I could come and go as I pleased, do what I wanted when I wanted, buy what I wanted so that was another big reason for me to stay single.
I had no trouble getting laid if I wanted to.
I just enjoyed my freedom.
I just don't feel the need. I'm fine with just having casual sex with no commitment.
Most guys don't accept it and they try to bullshit me and convince me that I should want it. Which I find honestly pathetic and I don't think it's worth a discussion.
I’ve seen the same women on dating sites for years, I even talked to one I hung out with almost a year ago and she said it was nothing I did wrong she just doesn’t want the aggravation of dating, she is also 41 years old and never been married or had kids, I’ve also noticed they don’t desire sex the way us guys do, they can go their whole lives without it I’ve noticed but you would think they would all want companionship and intimacy but they don’t, I’m convinced that many women are asexual compared to men. Unfortunately that’s just the way it is these days. I’m still looking but seems woman in other cultures are brought up to want a man and have arranged marriages so they don’t have a choice really so that’s why in other countries it’s not like that, you don’t see many single women in their 20s in other countries unless they lost their spouse or something else is wrong
As much as I'd like to blame women for this, guys are just as guilty, maybe even more guilty.
Guys are such entitled brats who act like children into their 30s and never want to settle down and get serious with a lady.
That causes them great frustration, when the only guys who approach them are man-children who view them as nothing more than a sex doll that talks. While the serious guy in the corner stays back and quiet. That is why so many good ladies out there are single.
Oh yes, entitled boss-b! tches who also act like children is also a reason. But my guys, grow the hell up
Fight me, I said it, you're damn right, I said it
Because she's a woman. She know she can change that in second if she wants. It's not it is for a man. Guys have to put in work to get a woman. A woman only need to say, "hi" to a man.
So it's the illusion of choice. Why do I say illusion? Because the smart ones know they're sexual attraction does have shelf life. And if they spend too much of they're youth squandering it then one day they wake up and it's gone. Then if she has no personality whatsoever dating for her from then on is an uphill battle that she is ill equipped for.
It's most likely because they have there own standards and have been disappointed so many times that they don't over romanticize dating. the other option is that they are focusing on other aspects of life, such as career, traveling, community serves or mental health.
II had strict parents growing up and didn’t date in high school. At university I went out with guys and got close, however it didn’t progress to full relationships and I’m glad because they ended up being real a-holes. Whilst I’m not against dating, after being hurt so many times I’m more careful and selective of which men I interact with. Although it may seem like I’m picky, I’m actually much more cautious.
Because they feel good/complete with themselves and don't see why should "tag along" with someone just for the sake of it.
Why and what don't you understand?
A relationship should be real and meaningful, if someone didn't find it why staying with someone randomly?
y'all are seeing single women? In my experience most women are ALWAYS in a relationship. And when they leave one they're into the next one literally the next day.
As a man you have to move fast as fuck or straight up just try to steal the girl.
i stayed single because men who i didn't like harassed me and either threatened guys who did like me or buy guys to try to date me. i feel sick at the crap i have had to put up with since i was of legal age.
I like being single believe it or not. I love my company and I make myself happy. Some people are happier sharing their lives with a significant other and some are happier single. It's just simple
They all think they deserve a 10/10 tall, wealthy, shredded apex alpha Chad to commit to them monogamously. When they meet the guys they actually qualify for they think they are beneath them. Don't worry, I'm sure some of them will come crawling back around when they are 40, have taken miles of Chadcock, and with bustard children in tow.
They only want the very "top" men (6 ft, 6 inches, 600K income) they can find, as do about 100% of other women. There aren't enough of these men to go around and the ones that are available do a lot of pump and dump. Nevertheless, that single woman would rather be alone than settle for anything less, no matter how ugly she is.
I have a boyfriend and I don't imagine myself being single. I guess some girls just prefer to be single because it's more comfortable and they don't think that the benefits outweight the downsides.
every single life walks a different path, some may have that in their future goals or are actively looking, & someone women don’t pursue it much or at all.
