First I thought some women reject me because they aren't attracted to me and that's why they don't even go out with me to give me a chance. But then a few years pass and they are still single. And it's not like they sleep around or have flings because I know they are shy and innocent religious women. Even if I'm not attracted to them enough, why don't they date anyone?
Probably because they already experienced a relationship that didn’t go well for them and they do not want to get their heart broken again once someone has their heart broken? they sometimes feel they can never truly love someone again , and they have a harder time trusting again. This happens To guys’ as well, that had their heart broken. I had my heart broken a few times by girls’ that I thought truly loved me , to find out they didn’t , So from that point on , I was happy staying single and focusing on myself , not wanting another relationship with a girl for quite sometime , having casual sex was fine with me , I started meeting girls’ that just wanted to be FWB’s or just wanted to have fun and have sex with barely any strings attached , I no longer allow myself to get into a serious relationship with a girl, until I really get to know her and feel she is really in it for the long haul as well. , and not the short haul , I have my preferences that I stick to now when it comes to girls’. My whole outlook on relationships changed after having my heart shit on a few times. I mainly have walls up protecting my heart now from lying backstabbing selfish girls’ Especially after my ex wife decided to betray me. i no longer look at love like I use to before I was cheated on and betrayed , I just treat people the way I want to be treated in return , I still love girls’ I just feel I am wiser when it comes to giving my heart to a girl and I pretty much know what I am seeking and who I will invest my time into, again I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , because most girls’ really don’t know what they want either , they mainly only want what is best for themselves and most girls’ think grass is greener on the other side. So I am mainly attracted to honesty , if a girl is honest with me , her chances of getting me in bed increases tremendously. Because I no longer care about her personal problems or issues , that’s her problem not mine. If she wants to lie to me , that’s her problem not mine. she will eventually encounter the consequences to her actions if she can’t be honest , all I can really worry about, is myself and my actions. I have slept with married women , I have slept with girls’ that were already in relationships that lied and a few that didn’t lie to me. Honestly I no longer care what her personal problems are , if she wants to run back to a guy she is cheating on , that’s her problem not mine. I am not a mind reader but when I meet a beautiful girl that has great chrome and connection with me , my intentions is to have fun with her and have a good time , if we end up playing Twister in bed , to me that’s a damn good time. My intentions is to see her more and more , if she doesn’t want to see me more or more , oh well we tried , basically
Thanks for a good time but not a long time
It’s because radical feminism keeps telling them that they are “strong and independent” for doing so. Also most young women are single by choice. All they have to do is say no and reject men.
That’s not to say any woman should be forced into a relationship. It’s necessary during certain life phases. But relying on the sugar high of virtual social media attention, “affirmation” from other single females, etc. or worse a feeling of “fighting patriarchy” is making lots of women miserable in the long run (and men are collateral damage but nobody seriously gives a shit about them). It’s as a shitty substitute for a real relationship and will make most women miserable in long run.
Funny just today I got in a conversation with a lady on a “traveling romance” dating app. The app is heavily moderated for OnlyFans bullshit. Anyway she claims she’s never left her home state before at 24 nor wants to. Also claims she just wants a “virtual” relationship.
I responded with f*ck no on the “virtual relationship” bs. Told her straight up I wanted to meet up someone in real life. Willing to make it an adventure to travel to.
So is very wrong with women who feel sugar high contentment with virtual attention. It’s seriously misanthropic and pure delusional fantasy. Most men don’t want that at all. We want something real.
i'm sick but if i get well i will also not settle just because i'm afraid to be alone. the thing is i am bot afraid to be alone. i have been in a relationship for many years before and so i know what its like. its not that i don't miss it in facr i'm a hopeless romantic type and looking for love but right now my focus is on my faith. my number one priority is my faith.
i want the world to know the reality of Jesus. and so it will have a domino effect on how the society behaves. for example stopping abortion, it is a sin against the Creator. also we shpuld treat pur neighbors equally. another thing is prostitution it must be stop. this gender pronouns also has to stop.
not that i'm scarinh anyone but motherly advise ( i am not a mother by the way i just have a motherly trait) i think it's better to be prepared. thankfully though i feel at peace there's no gut feel that something bad will happen in the future but also in the Bible the Master could return like a thief in the night.
i think there might be other Mystic pips out there who can help analyze what needs to be done. fyi the Divine Mercy Shrine i go to were built by mystic pips too. the people i am in contact with right now are highly rich influential people and so what does could that mean
could it be world preparation? a massive scope of evangelization?
everyone is called to do this. do your part.
I didn’t start dating until I was 25. The reasons I stayed single were just compounded;
1. I grew up with strong religious convictions that kept me out of the bars and clubs and away from most dating sites.
2. I went to college straight out of high school, but chose to live at home with my parents to keep costs down. I focused on academics and didn’t really develop an interest in extracurriculars, which kept me from meeting a lot of people.
3. I didn’t want to date anyone who didn’t share my religious beliefs. I also only dated with marriage in mind, and was very upfront about my desires for the future. I was not interested in wasting anyone’s time nor having my time wasted.
4. Those who I did date were just not the right people. They weren’t bad people, it’s just the relationships themselves were not good. If I stayed with them, I would have been settling. If they stayed with me, they would be settling. Nobody deserves to settle nor be settled for.
I stayed single because I wanted to find the man I would want to spend the rest of my life with. And I did. And now I can look forward to our marriage next year.
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u Most people don't remain single because they believe no one is good enough for them. A girl might meet a guy who she thinks is a great guy, but she isn't attracted to him. Or she may think he's wonderful but they come from different cultures and a LTR would be difficult. She may think he's a wonderful guy but too much of a risk taker. . . or not enough of a risk taker. . . or the wrong religion or political beliefs.
It's about finding a person who is a good match, and not just someone who is good.
Because the one they want don’t want them. Or they’ve been single way too long, they’re happier doing whatever they’re doing
@Pinay_ako hit the nail on the head with that first one. Most girls want tall guys who are shredded witjh big Ds and full heads of hair and high earners. But there are very few men who check most or all those boxes, and so 80% of girls end up chasing 20% of men
@Pinay_ako, if we’re looking at unrealistic expectations, we shouldn’t point the finger at the girls who look at guys who are fit… Guys tend to like boobs and curves and fit… and leave the average girl in the dust to chase a fantasy. (Also, FYI, the shredded guys aren’t everyone’s type. Personally, yea, a little taller to reach the pesky jars on the top shelf at home would be nice, haha.)
@Pinay_ako agreed.
@At3mis24 we absolutely choose who we love and allow into our lives when if comes to the romantic stuff. The only people we don’t choose are relatives or children. We’re not trapped or fated to love people who are wrong for us, harmful to us, etc. we also can’t chose all the people we feel feelings for. We have to choose.
@DishLady So you think I've chosen the English actor who I fell for 3 years ago? No, I didn't choose him, it's Universe who just decided to place him in my road, but I don't want him in my life, not because of his somewhat celebrity (he's not very known) but because I'm scared about relationships.
To think you should be everyone’s cup of tea is bonkers and arrogant to boot!
I have strict parents which is the biggest reason I’ve only dated 2 people in my life.
But you did date. I should've mentioned that I'm referring to those women who never dated anyone.
I don’t want to date. I have bad experiences and don’t trust people. Especially not men to date. I’m content being single, it’s more peaceful and I don’t have to worry about someone cheating, lying, being emotionally abusive, emotionally abusive, breakups or whatever. I also basically never find someone attractive and interesting enough that I want to get to know them or be with them anyway. There’s a good chance I’ll be single for the rest of my life and if so I’m fine with that. Rather that than have to go through some bullshit or cry because of a guy ever again.
Sorry. I forgot to mention that I'm referring to women who never dated anyone.
my guess is that they are just tired of the games and being used.
Or really just don't need to be in a relationship to feel whole.
Same with men.
I was single for a long time by choice.
I was tired of the games, being used, being not much more than a wallet.
I found that I could come and go as I pleased, do what I wanted when I wanted, buy what I wanted so that was another big reason for me to stay single.
I had no trouble getting laid if I wanted to.
I just enjoyed my freedom.
As much as I'd like to blame women for this, guys are just as guilty, maybe even more guilty.
Guys are such entitled brats who act like children into their 30s and never want to settle down and get serious with a lady.
That causes them great frustration, when the only guys who approach them are man-children who view them as nothing more than a sex doll that talks. While the serious guy in the corner stays back and quiet. That is why so many good ladies out there are single.
Oh yes, entitled boss-b! tches who also act like children is also a reason. But my guys, grow the hell up
Fight me, I said it, you're damn right, I said it
I’ve seen the same women on dating sites for years, I even talked to one I hung out with almost a year ago and she said it was nothing I did wrong she just doesn’t want the aggravation of dating, she is also 41 years old and never been married or had kids, I’ve also noticed they don’t desire sex the way us guys do, they can go their whole lives without it I’ve noticed but you would think they would all want companionship and intimacy but they don’t, I’m convinced that many women are asexual compared to men. Unfortunately that’s just the way it is these days. I’m still looking but seems woman in other cultures are brought up to want a man and have arranged marriages so they don’t have a choice really so that’s why in other countries it’s not like that, you don’t see many single women in their 20s in other countries unless they lost their spouse or something else is wrong
Because she's a woman. She know she can change that in second if she wants. It's not it is for a man. Guys have to put in work to get a woman. A woman only need to say, "hi" to a man.
So it's the illusion of choice. Why do I say illusion? Because the smart ones know they're sexual attraction does have shelf life. And if they spend too much of they're youth squandering it then one day they wake up and it's gone. Then if she has no personality whatsoever dating for her from then on is an uphill battle that she is ill equipped for.
You mean it's taken for granted? You don't value something because it comes so easily?
They don't value the ability to attract men correct. Doesn't mean they don't value individual men (just trying to be clear in my answer to your question.
Women want a succful relationship as much as if not considerably more then men. But women view it vastly different then men.
Women know that at least 50% of guys are attracted to them but probably only about 1 to 10% of them guys will make a good partner. And she don't want to go through 40% of hurt to find that 1 to 10%.
Men on the other hand know only about 10% of women will be attracted to him. And only about 1% of them women will actually make it to the girlfriend/partner stage. And since the odds are he's going to do or say something along the way that derails his hopes, this is why guys cannot be selective like women can.
It's most likely because they have there own standards and have been disappointed so many times that they don't over romanticize dating. the other option is that they are focusing on other aspects of life, such as career, traveling, community serves or mental health.
II had strict parents growing up and didn’t date in high school. At university I went out with guys and got close, however it didn’t progress to full relationships and I’m glad because they ended up being real a-holes. Whilst I’m not against dating, after being hurt so many times I’m more careful and selective of which men I interact with. Although it may seem like I’m picky, I’m actually much more cautious.
Because they feel good/complete with themselves and don't see why should "tag along" with someone just for the sake of it.
Why and what don't you understand?
A relationship should be real and meaningful, if someone didn't find it why staying with someone randomly?
Because we all have emotional and physical, reproductive needs. And I think you can't find a real and meaningful relationship unless you try to get to know someone. I'm not saying that they should stay with someone randomly, but with someone they know. There should be someone compatible enough.
Do you like one type of this gilrs? xD
It's not that we feel superior or nothing, just we live good with ourselves and before taking someone in our life we want to make sure he is 110% compatible and worth it, otherwise it is a waste of time.
Trust me, many jerks and stories I've heard out there let me think thank God I am alone and live in 2024 so I can maintain myself financially. One of the few I liked wasn't a mutual feeling for him but for that I am not jumping to another one. It has to be the right compatible person.
I'm not into them per se, it's just that they are single and I happen to be attracted to some of them. I don't approach women who are already in relationships.
My question is how can they know if they are not compatible with me if they stop replying after two texts or if they say no right away when I ask them out. And we know each other a little bit anyway, it's not like I'm some random creep. I actually prefer it when they accept to go out with me and then they say they are not attracted to me instead.
@At3mis24 exactly, that’s the point the asker is missing here. Love is chemistry, not rational. I am talking about REAL love not this shallow dating which covers all our society. Plus, many women don’t have reproductive needs.
E. g. A person can be a total stranger or maybe you saw him/her twice and in that little timeframe you realised the chemistry was there. Maybe you don’t even know his hobbies or background but this is what happens. Believe it or not it happens and me, I got scared and run away
y'all are seeing single women? In my experience most women are ALWAYS in a relationship. And when they leave one they're into the next one literally the next day.
As a man you have to move fast as fuck or straight up just try to steal the girl.
i stayed single because men who i didn't like harassed me and either threatened guys who did like me or buy guys to try to date me. i feel sick at the crap i have had to put up with since i was of legal age.
Sorry to hear that
not looking for sympathy just being honest, you never know why people areas they are
@virtualwasp serves you right
I like being single believe it or not. I love my company and I make myself happy. Some people are happier sharing their lives with a significant other and some are happier single. It's just simple
@Sweetbrunette305 I do not think anyone is truly happier single…however I do think some people have been so burned by bad relationships that it’s easier to be single than risk that again
@JHAYES317 That's your right to believe that. I'm 39 years old, I had a good relationship with my ex but we grew apart. No grudges. I'm not looking for a long-term partner now because I am truly happy and satisfied with myself and my life. People don't believe another human being can be happy being single because most of them are needy
@Sweetbrunette305 no I do think a human being can be happy being single if they are a monk or a hermit for example, but you have to be completely detached from sexuality for that to work
They all think they deserve a 10/10 tall, wealthy, shredded apex alpha Chad to commit to them monogamously. When they meet the guys they actually qualify for they think they are beneath them. Don't worry, I'm sure some of them will come crawling back around when they are 40, have taken miles of Chadcock, and with bustard children in tow.
delusional ramblings of an incel who has no clue what he is talking about
@what_the_hell I am married you stupid bitch
They only want the very "top" men (6 ft, 6 inches, 600K income) they can find, as do about 100% of other women. There aren't enough of these men to go around and the ones that are available do a lot of pump and dump. Nevertheless, that single woman would rather be alone than settle for anything less, no matter how ugly she is.
BULLSHIT
I have a boyfriend and I don't imagine myself being single. I guess some girls just prefer to be single because it's more comfortable and they don't think that the benefits outweight the downsides.
every single life walks a different path, some may have that in their future goals or are actively looking, & someone women don’t pursue it much or at all.
Newsflash, not all women desire a man in their lives. Men are not as important as they think they are.
My opinion is that all humans are naturally inclined to seek affection: both physical and emotional. Which doesn't mean that you shouldn't be self-reliant, but that doesn't exclude the need to share some of your life with someone else.
@Dinklex3 the problem here is that opinion owner is a man hater who spends more time on this site than off it, posting how she hates men, especially those who shave, and that she can't trust men at all because one guy broke her.
Also, not cooming frequently makes it difficult amd painful to defecate and urinate once coom builds up. Family and friends excludes coom partners, so what do you do?
That's not what it is, you just don't have faith that any men out there will love you like they should.
Tens of thousands of years of biology, and you're telling me you've defied it? I don't think so, I think you're so bothered by the man-children who view you as their personal sex doll approaching you at bars, and you're understandably sick of it.
Well, now, see that "weird" guy in the corner? Go say "hi", cause chances are, he's the man you're looking for, not the d! ckheads who come up and try to buy you a drink, and think you owe them sex for it
@Dinklex3 I said physical and emotional. You do get emotional affection from family and friends. But physical? I'm not the type who wants to get physical affection from my family members 😂 and I have female friends, but if I got physical affection from them, I wouldn't call them friends anymore. They would be girlfriends.
@asker Yes. People get hugs, kisses, and cuddles from friends and family.
Not everything physical is sexual. I understand that a lot of men don’t hold hands, hug, or link arms with their male friends, but a lot of us women do with our female friends. So a woman being single doesn’t mean she’s missing out on physical affection or emotional affection. I stayed single for years and I didn’t long for affection because I was already getting it.
@Dinklex3 I am touchy with two of my friends, but I would never get the emotional and physical feeling I would get when having sex with a woman
It’s better to be single than to be with the wrong person in your life.
Many women would rather be alone than in an unhappy relationship. I know I would. I'd rather be alone with cats than settle.
@Goahead76 Well, I think it's something we should all adopt.
@AmyHew1tt literally everybody settles. Only 1% of guys are like Chris Hemsworth, Henry Cavill etc
@JHAYES317. Shhh! Stop that, don't tell them!
@JHAYES317 Dude. . . Sure, if that's what you want 🙄
@AmyHew1tt do you not want a tall guy with a big d, full head of hair etc?
@JHAYES317 I have a type, and it isn't Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth or whoever, as do many women. We aren't, no matter how many men like thinking it, a monolith. As for tall, big, dick, full head of hair, the full head of hair is the only part of that which is a non-negotioable for me at this point in my life. And everyone does not settle. I'm sure how well you understand women at all. I come from an extensive book-reading community where plenty of women drool over tall guys who are billionaires and murder people for a living. They're all very open with the fact that something which appeals in literature or in media is not what they're looking for in real life.
@AmyHew1tt why the full head of hair one? Men can’t stop themselves from losing their hair, it’s uncontrollable…
We also, all the time, meet people who we never would have considered being in a relationship with, and end up falling madly in love with them. Love plays a great deal into how attractive a person appeals to people. Just because that person isn't the living embodiment of our dream partner doesn't mean we've settled for them.
@JHAYES317 They can. Plenty of men have full heads of hair well into their 70s. Obviously, there's problems like genes, alopecia, and off-kilter hormones that make it very difficult, but honestly lots of guys just don't take the steps to take care of themselves, like doing a hair-care routine and reducing alcohol consumption.
@AmyHew1tt not drinking alcohol and shampooing regularly won’t stop men from losing their hair. Genetics account for 80% of pale pattern baldness www.healthline.com/.../baldness-gene
@JHAYES317 I'm not talking about shampooing, lol. Look up, for example, rosemary oil treatments. I know a guy personally who was nearly fully bald on top of his head and did regular scalp-massage and oil treatments and he's almost got a full head of hair now.
@AmyHew1tt I mean there’s stuff like minoxidil and finasteride sure but that only slows things down, and not even always and often causes ED and gyno and other problems. If rosemary oil and scalp massages were actually that effective, then doctors would be recommending them, but they aren’t.
@JHAYES317 That's because they aren't expensive, and people won't come to doctors for them, lol. Regardless, not everything will work for everyone. I agree for some men baldness is inevitable. But if young men are going bald before middle-age then that's an underlying cause and problem that needs to be addressed, not accepted. The same thing is happening with erectile dysfunctions. I've been getting ads for Viagra for men in their late teens and twenties, which is crazy. That's a huge sign that men's bodies and hormones are messed up.
And preferences exist, unfortunately for everyone. What we can or can't do to change it really holds no bearing.
@AmyHew1tt that’s not true at all lol…I’ve been using shampoo with pumpkin seed oil and rosemary and a bunch of other shit and it makes no difference. A lot of guys are just genetically predisposed to lose the hair. www.manual.co/.../hair-loss-stats-the-numbers-you-need-on-male-pattern-baldness
@JHAYES317 And that's a problem. It should not be normalized.
Anyway, some people don't mind baldness, some people prefer it, some people don't. Everyone has preferences.
@AmyHew1tt no it should be normalized…men should not have to take hormone treatments or get hair transplants if it’s a natural thing that happens.
@JHAYES317 But it isn't, dude. Young guys going bald is not natural. Something's going on there. I'm not saying those guys should be shamed, far from it, but even if we did normalize it, it wouldn't make more people attracted to it.
@AmyHew1tt Is it natural since it’s genetics…alcohol consumption and a bad diet doesn’t make you go bald any younger your hair just might look worse…
@JHAYES317 But it's only more recently that this problem has affected younger men largely. And yes, bad diets and alcohol do plenty of damage. Just because it's become normal, doesn't mean it should be. And my point remains, normalizing it or not won't make it more appealing.
@AmyHew1tt find me a source that indicated bad diets and alcohol cause male pattern baldness. And normalizing it would make it more appealing…the only reason girls like big d is due to porn, the only reason girls like tall guys is due to Hollywood, etc
@JHAYES317 Go talk to a nutritionist. My own is very informative.
And no, women have liked big tall guys since the beginning of time. Once again, we are not a monolith, some women like huge men with big dicks, and some like skinny dudes with average ones. Most women will agree his ability to use his dick the right way supersedes the size.
@AmyHew1tt women have liked STRONG guys since the beginning of time. The tall thing only became relevant in the past century or so…and I have talked to nutrionists…basically what they say is a bad diet and alcohol can certainly make your hair QUALITY worse…it will not CAUSE baldness
@JHAYES317 I'm not sure about that. I read a lot of books written all the way back to the fourteenth century and tall guys were pretty popular back then too.
And yes, I agree, it will rarely cause literal complete baldness. I've already concurred that for some men, there's nothing they can do, and that's extremely unfortunate. But if many young men are going bald, then there is going to be some underlying reason we should look at. It's the same with painful menstruation for women. It's become normal because so many women have it, but it's not good, and instead of handing out birth control, or, to men, wigs, we should focus more on actually fixing these things.
@AmyHew1tt it’d likely be caused by more uncontrollable environmental factors like climate change or GMOs though…I doubt simply abstaining from alcohol or junk food would prevent hair loss…maybe if you were able to get all your products completely organic and natural, including food, water, soaps, shampoos etc…then MAYBE? But that’s unrealistic for most people due to access and affordability
@JHAYES317 Oh, it absolutely would be unaffordable, and that sucks all on its own. I don't believe that's the main factor though. But what I mean is, that healthy young men shouldn't be going bald, and healthy young women shouldn't be in debilitating pain every month. Lots of them are, and people trying to normalize that, and not look deeper for reasons that are there, whether they're clear or not, is only paving a path for more of those problems for the next generation.
@AmyHew1tt what do you think the main factor is then?
@JHAYES317 I'm not sure, but whatever it is is affecting us in more ways than just one, and it's definitely an interest of mine. Food allergies are another example, that I'm particularly interested in because they affect me severely.
@AmyHew1tt then how come a lot of guys with food allergies aren’t losing hair? I feel like the only way to actually know would be to do a DNA test on more men and women who are losing hair, since women have been experiencing more baldness too in past decades
@JHAYES317 What? I think you misunderstood me. I'm not connecting food allergies to hair loss. I was talking about underlying health issues causing these things such as: Hairloss, painful periods, and food allergies.
@AmyHew1tt yeah true but what I’m saying is the only way to find out systematically what the underlying cause would be to do a widespread DNA panel and then cross reference among thousands of people?
@JHAYES317 Why not? If it would give better odds to the next generation.
@AmyHew1tt I’m for it, but getting someone to fund that scale of a study would be a challenge
@JHAYES317 It would. And honestly, what pisses me off is how so much money is spent on much stupider things.
@AmyHew1tt I don’t disagree with the you. I still think it’s silly to make something like hair loss which is, at least for now, almost entirely uncontrollable, a dealbreaker, but otherwise I agree with you.
@JHAYES317 I get that, it is sad and unfortunate. I have areas like that in my own life, where things I can't change, without surgery, put me lower on the dating ladder. But I also know that lots of preferences are unconscious and uncontrollable, and our ability or inability to fix those things doesn't really do much to change those preferences.
@AmyHew1tt well that’s why I get preferences being a thing. Like I’m more attracted to slim but curvy, slightly exotic brunettes with D cup boobs and a decent butt and shorter than me, HOWEVER, if a girl who was blonde, skinny, white, A cup boobs, average butt, and taller than me asked me out, I’m not gonna say no. So I guess my point is, I get preferring a guy with hair, but it just seems silly to refuse to date a guy because he got unlucky and lost his hair in his 20s…even if he has a great personality and you find other things about him attractive…
I think the bigger picture here is what men see and experience in online dating. All these dating apps boil down into data and the data has shown 90% of women chase the top 3-4% of guys. The hot guys are happy to sleep with them but not for anything long term. They spend their entire 20's chasing a fantasy.
This is essentially the story in the US, UK, Australia, dating and marriage rates have ground to a complete halt.
@JHAYES317 Well then, I guess there are different kinds of preferences. For example, I prefer guys with black curly/wavy hair and brown eyes. But I could absolutely date a blonde guy with blue or green eyes if he was otherwise attractive to me. However, there are certain physical aspects that I literally cannot bring myself to not require for attraction. That's the kind of preference I'm talking about. The kind that you have no choice over. I'm not sure what the proper word is.
@AmyHew1tt so if you were dating a man and he lost his hair, you’d dump him?
@JHAYES317 No, it would probably be different if I was already in love with him.
@AmyHew1tt well that’s good at least. One of my biggest fears is getting ED or shrinkage in my penis and whoever I’m dating leaving me due to that
We reject too many guys,
sometimes we meet someone perfect but we are not ready,
sometimes we bail out at the last time before commitment,
sometimes, we are attracted to emotionally and physically unavailable men.
Yep and it serves women right
i was single for a long time before my boyfriend but i always had friends with benefits around so i was happy enough
Some of us are just tired of games and waiting on the right person (or have come to grips that the “right person” may not exist for us ) no use in wasting time -my pov
Probably because it isn’t a priority or interest.
Each person has their personal reasons why.
For some is past relationship disappointments, don't feel ready for relationship commitments or enjoy being single for whatever personal reasons.
I think a high percentage of women have an idea or fantasy of the men they want but those men are: A. Extremely rare B. Would not be interested in them even if they found one.
They don't want to, or they do but they aren't doing anything to meet someone.
Some are very picky and want that perfect mr right.
For the ones I know, they either can't keep a man or just go after the wrong ones so often that they get hurt and don't want to try again
Some people have this mindeset and they r not into dating. They dont see the hype in it.
Probably because they’ve gotten around. or maybe they’re just bitches. Or they think they deserve better than any guy they know?
In my case, I prefer to work on myself before entering into a serious relationship 🫡
That's their life and their choice. You shouldn't spend time on others lives
Definitely, but I'm looking for a girlfriend and that's why I think about this 😂
Are you sure they are single? Like there's no guy in their life?
Yes. No partner. I doubt that these girls I'm referring to sleep around.
You never know 😉
There isn't anybody good enough for their head
Being single is my choice. I came out of a relationship last July to recover from whatever happened. I have to desire to date anyone.
its simply their own personal decision
Because they don’t have realistic standards
Cause we don’t want to date
I have yet to meet a woman who's single
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